Saturday, May 31, 2025

It finally came--the watch Eugene ordered me on EBay. I was anxiously awaiting it. On one hand it couldn't be more me. I mean cats galore. On the other hand, because of my ridiculously small bones it wasn't will it be too big, but how much too big. And it didn't have a leather strap I could make another hole in. Luckily it's loose, but not falling off. So I can wear it. And I bet I can find a jeweler who can remove a few links. So I am very happy with it.



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Friday, May 30, 2025

Liars, Inc. (YA chiller)

     In our teen years a lot of us provide cover stories for friends intent on getting away with something. It's usually no big deal. So when his friend, Preston, asks Max, narrator of Paula Stokes' Liars, Inc., to make it look like he's on a camping trip to meet up with a girl he's met on line, he has no clue that this decision is going to turn life as he knows into hell on earth. 
     Actually the boys and their friend Parvati are quite comfortable with falsehood. They've created a lucrative little business at school, Liars Inc. They'll call kids in sick, forge parental signatures on all kinds of documents, ensure good test scores, and provide other services for the right amount of money. 
     Preston has assured Max that he will be back in time for school. When he isn't home Sunday Max thinks nothing of it. Monday he gets a call from Preston's frantic mother who says Preston never came home. And in no time at all he's in an interrogation room being questioned by FBI agents. 
     "Apparently when the kid of a senator goes missing they bring in the top dogs."
     When Max sticks with the alibi, fearful that the truth about Liars, Inc will surface the agents come up with a lot of inconvenient questions. 
     "Too much had happened too quickly. I was still waiting for Preston to roll up in his car and tell me a big funny story about his adventures in Vegas. I hadn't completely wrapped my brain around the possibility that something bad had happened to him, let alone the possibility that someone else had hurt him and was setting me up to take the fall."
     It certainly looks that way. Pretty soon Max is desperately fleeing the FBI, racking up felony charges that come to include arson and murder, and finding out that he and his friends are not the only liars in town. 
On a personal note, I finally got a ride to the redemption center to cash in the bags of cans and bottles that had been taking up so much space in my trailer and shed. $56 worth. Now I could finally reach the summer clothes stashed in my shed. I spent much of yesterday pulling my summer clothes out, washing them and hanging them out to dry, and storing my winter clothes. Not exciting but definitely progress. It looks like Maine is in for yet another rainy weekend. I have no plans. 
A great big shout out goes out to you. I hope that you have a fun and safe weekend. 
Jules Hathaway 



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Thursday, May 29, 2025

Well, fam, this is the first plant to go into my little 💐 garden. My friend Diane took me to a flower nursery and we picked it out. It won't be lonely too long. Diane has promised me some Johnny jump ups. And she's given me sweet alyssum seeds.
Before last year the garden was Eugene's. Despite all my community garden volunteering I was convinced that with 💐 I would be totally inept. The last summer I chose some of the flowers and discovered I wasn't. This summer I'm psyched to create a beautiful space to read near.
Today is a really special day. It's my Amber's birthday 🎂 🥳 🎉 🎈 🎁 🎊. Let's all wish her a wonderful birthday and a most successful book launch--only a month away.
A great big shout out goes out to Amber and Diane.
Jules Hathaway 



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Wednesday, May 28, 2025

Dare I Say It

     When my mother went through the menopause from Hell people didn't say the word. She was going through The Change and doing her best to keep it a secret probably even from her doctor. When I went through my asymptomatic menopause this perfectly normal transition was still a taboo topic...
     ...Actually it's still too often a taboo topic with most doctors not knowing enough about it's complexities, society propagating a myth of rapid decline in everything from sexuality to cognition, and women in the passage stigmatized and shamed.
     It's a damn good thing that we're finally getting books on the subject from women who have been there, done that. I've just discovered one that I'd recommend to my daughters: Naomi Watts' Dare I Say It: Everything I Wish I'd Known About Menopause. It covers the complexities--physical, mental, and emotional--of the transition. It's a wonderful blend of anecdotal experience and clinical research. The experiences described in the book are highly relatable. 
     Most of us enter menopause knowing only a few key symptoms. I would have flunked a pop quiz. I expected hot flashes, night sweats, wild mood swings, and, of course, cessation of menses. Watts shows us how a wide range of symptoms--physical, cognitive, and emotional--are indeed menopause related and can be ameliorated. This is major. 
     One of the most important messages Watts delivers is to be assertive in your health care. Women tend to be taught to be submissive in medical care situations. All too many doctors, especially he/him ones are not good listeners. And if he won't listen find someone else. You deserve better. I'm going to ditch my PCP the second I get in with another practice.
     Seriously when doctors don't listen the consequences can be really bad or fatal. When I broke my wrist the first doctor I saw refused to x ray claiming that if I had a fracture I'd be in more pain. I got a second opinion. When I was in the hospital after I had my first baby I told the rounds doctor I had an infection. He told me it was my imagination. Prepare to be indignant. If I hadn't rung for a nurse speedy quick I would have died from a hospital acquired infection. So BE ASSERTIVE!!!
     I also love how Watts reframes life after menopause. It's too often described as a time of decline, irrelevance, boredom, and ugly as fuck "age appropriate" clothes. She sees it as a time of exploration, discovery, and fulfillment. 
     I have two wonderful adult daughters. I'm keeping up with the lit on menopause because I want this transition to as positive as possible for them just like the previous ones in their lives. I want to help them in any way I can. And Dare I Say It gives me plenty of ideas.
On a purrrsonal note, because my mother's menopause was so dramatic I was sure I'd know when it happened. Wrong! One day I realized I hadn't menstruated in quite awhile--over a year to be exact. It was like well I guess I hit that milestone. And for me the years following have been ones of exploration,  discovery, fulfillment, and abundant joy. I discovered my passion and how to make a career out of it. I just acquired the degree I need for that. I have exciting new interests, a loving family, and wonderful friends. And the undergrads are always asking me where I get my clothes. LIFE IS AWESOME!!!
A great big shout out goes out to Watts and the others who are finally serving up the deets on a still too taboo topic. 
Jules Hathaway 


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Tuesday, May 27, 2025

This is my graduation card from Amber. It's pages and pages of pictures and messages from important people in my life. Truly a labor of love! You can't get something like this from a store.



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Monday, May 26, 2025

No One Else Can Have You (YA fiction)

     The little Wisconsin town of Friendship, the setting of Kathleen Hale's No One Else Can Have You, prides itself on its civility. People walk around smiling, greeting each other, acting like everything is wonderful, even if when it isn't. No one brings up topics that would make others uncomfortable. 
     But nasty currents run under all this superficial veneer of niceness. Sometimes they come to the surface.
     A police officer answers a call from the owners of a corn field, sure that it's just another case of vandalism like the ones he's dealt with in the past. The wife is in hysterics She leads him to a tree from which swings the grotesquely mutilated body of Ruth, a teenage girl. 
     Sheriff Staake is sure it's an open and shut case. The culprit is obviously Ruth's boyfriend, Colt. He has a long history of vandalism and worse. Because he was a football star the police had to clean up after him each time rather than prosecuting him.
     Kippy, Hale's narrator, was Ruth's best friend. In fact when Ruth was abducted she was on her way to Kippy's house for a birthday sleepover. Kippy considers Colt to be BAD NEWS. She knows that he beat Ruth and probably cheated on her. But she knows that her hometown's cops are much better at finding lost pets than dealing with homicide. She thinks that they're closing the case much too soon.
     "But what do I do? Because honestly I don't even know what I'm after or up against here. I mean, the cops won't listen and everyone else has their heads inside their butts trying to be polite. Not to mention, Friendship is actually way less boring but maybe also much more weird and creepy than I thought it was, and nobody really prepared me for that."
     Prepared or not, Kippy is determined to solve the mystery...
     ...if it doesn't prove to be the death of her.
On a purrrsonal note, Eugene and I spent our 3 day weekend at camp, mostly indoors with the wood stove going. It was cold and rainy 🌧 until the 🌞 came out just when it was time to go home. But we did have fun. We watched 2 funny movies. And I read 3 books. 
A great big shout goes out to Eugene. 
Jules Hathaway 



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Friday, May 23, 2025

I'm Sorry For My Loss

     People who know me know that I have three amazing adult children. What they may not  know is that I also lost three pregnancies. The third involved an abortion when the miscarriage wouldn't end and my life was in jeopardy. (The fetus had no heartbeat). What I became all too familiar with was the discomfort people have in relationship to pregnancy loss, rendering it a taboo topic rather than a chance to offer support. It can be a very isolating experience. 
     That's one of the reasons I'm grateful for Rebecca Little and Colleen Long's I'm Sorry for My Loss: An UrgentExamination of Reproductive care in America. Both authors experienced pregnancy loss and and the taboos surrounding it.
     "Colleen was shocked by how infrequently people would talk about what happened; some of her family never even mentioned it once. She felt like she couldn't talk about it either. After her stillborn son, a priest told Rebecca that he didn't need to pray for the baby because he was already in heaven, so she shouldn't feel sad. This was far from a comfort; it was engaging and invalidating."
     Little and Long take readers through the history of miscarriage, stillbirth, and abortion in America from the birth of the nation when women became great with child about every two years and lost many of these pregnancies through the early 20th century when Margaret  Sanger advocated for both birth control and eugenics, the '50s when women's reason d'etre was thought to be bearing and raising children, and the legalization of abortion to the present day when Roe v Wade has been overturned. They show the many factors, such as state of medicine and science, religion, and politics, that were highly influential. They remind us that access to reproductive care is highly influenced by race and class.
     They have grave concerns in today's America where a number of states have outlawed or severely restricted abortion and the right is pushing for more of same. It isn't just women seeking abortions and doctors willing to provide them who are in danger. A lot of doctors are afraid to treat women desperately in need of help because of pregnancy complications. And how about the prospect of miscarrying women being jailed for homicide. 
     I'm Sorry for My Loss is a clarion call for action. It's a must read for medical care professionals, policy makers, and people who can get pregnant and the people who care about them. 
On a purrrsonal note, if today's legislation had been in practice in my reproductive years I'd be in prison or dead. It's another reason (besides my belief that you shouldn't have a child unless you really want one) that I don't nag for grands. It's become a relief that at a time when any kind of pregnancy termination can have truly tragic consequences that my kids don't want to have kids.
A great big shout out goes out to Little and Long for this comprehensive and highly relevant book.
Fam, I wish you a safe and happy three day weekend. I probably will be going to camp and if so taking a break from technology to better appreciate nature. 
Jules Hathaway 



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Thursday, May 22, 2025

There Is No Place For Us (adult nonfiction)

     One of the myths that we cherish in America is that the people who are homeless don't work. If they did they wouldn't be homeless. Right? In There Is No Place For Us: Working and Homeless in America Brian Goldstone decisively refutes this notion. 
     About seven years ago Goldstone interviewed a woman who, with her children, had been homeless for months. Their ordeal had started with a letter from her landlord. The area was gentrifying. She was going to sell. They were kicked out of a second rental, again through no fault of their own when code enforcement condemned it. An extended-stay hotel was too expensive. They had nowhere to go.
     The woman had a full time job as a home health aid. 
     After his article was published in 2019 Goldstone couldn't stop thinking about the family. Was their experience an anomaly or part of a much bigger picture? 
     "I realized that the problem was much bigger than this particular city. I started seeing it everywhere. In Northern California I visited 'safe parking lots' full of working families living in their cars and minivans. I talked to a shelter director who explained that more than half of the people his organization served were employed in low-wage jobs."
     Goldstone's epiphany resulted in There Is No Place For Us. In this highly readable book he focuses on the plights of five working parent families who tried their best to play by the rules. They are the bricks with background scholarship as the cement. If you're anything like me their stories will engage and trouble you. You might realize how easily that could have been you or a treasured friend or family member. (See purrrsonal note.)
     How did the families become homeless. Sometimes it was through individual circumstances beyond their control. When a landlord decides to sell there often aren't affordable alternatives. One family's descent began when their rental home was torched.
     But more often it's something systemic. Gentrification is big driver. When rich usually white people "discover" a usually black neighborhood and start descending on it in predatory droves landlords are only too willing to sell out. One city, wanting an improved image prior to hosting the Olympics, purposefully demolished its public housing projects.
     Government vouchers which cap the percentage of a family's income that must be spent on rent have been touted as a safety measure. And in the past they served that purpose for the few that could get them. But today landlords either won't take them or charge so much their properties are not  options. 
     Homelessness is defined officially in a way that severely underestimates its prevalence, therefore denying many people much needed help. If only people actually sleeping on the street or under bridges or occupying shelters are counted the legions of families doubling up with friends or family members, sleeping in cars, and trapped in other way less than desirable situations are shit out of luck.
     And there are lots of people making money off this crisis. An example cited frequently in the book of the predatory long term residence hotels that charge so much for a substandard (often mold and vermin infested) room that a family can't save enough to move out. It's the 21st century version of the company store. 
     Goldstone tells readers that the rapidly escalating American homelessness epidemic can be turned around, as it has been in countries that have conceptualized safe housing as a basic human right. In a stirring last paragraph he urges this nation to do the right thing. 
     "Our cities are on a perilous path, with extreme and mounting wealth on one side, loss and deprivation on the other, and a credo of hard work will be rewarded somehow persisting despite it all. But this new American homelessness is a choice--one we have collectectively made as a society--and it comes at a cost: Grace consoling her baby brother as they pass the night in a Walmart parking lot; Kyrie and Desiree moving from one living room floor to another, never knowing where they'll be staying next; DJ and his siblings sleeping in a filthy, freezing storage room. Such suffering is so unnecessary, so utterly preventable. We have the solutions. We have the resources. What we need now is the will to act."
     This eloquent, hard hitting book is a must read for people working in social work and related fields, policy makers, and people who give a damn about social justice. 
On a purrrsonal note, trailer parks can be a lot like apartment complexes with the constant threat of huge rent increases and having the place sold off with very little time to find some 
other park with room. When my husband and I had paid the mortgage on our trailer and were just paying lot rent we learned that our current landlord was looking to sell. Thank God for Coastal Enterprises! They're a Maine outfit that helps residents turn for profit trailer parks into resident owned cooperatives. In 2010 Greystone became a cooperative. My family had lived there for 20 years at that point. It was the first time I could live without the nagging fear of homelessness in the back of my mind. It felt amazing. 
A great big shout out goes out to Coastal Enterprises and other organizations doing similar work. 
Jules Hathaway 





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Wednesday, May 21, 2025

My treasures from Rt. 1A Relics. Aren't the earrings gorgeous?



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Tuesday, May 20, 2025

All The Other Mothers Hate Me (adult fiction)

     "The missing boy is ten-year-old Alfie Risby, and to be perfectly honest with you, he's a little shit.
     I realize that's a horrible thing to say about a child, particularly one who is missing. But--and I'm not proud of this--if I had to choose a boy in Dylan's class to vanish in broad daylight, Alfie would have been at the top of my list."
     Flo, the narrator of Sarah Harmon's All The Other Mothers Hate Me, is pretty disillusioned with life. The girl band she was part of didn't make it big until after she left it. Now she's paying the bills by making balloon arches for rich people's parties. But there's still so much time to fill with television and alcohol and hookups. Her about-to-be-married younger sister is always on her case to grow up already. And the other mothers at her son, Dylan's do seem to hate, or at least dislike, her.
     Dylan is the one ray of sunshine in Flo's life. It's the two of them. His father walked out when he was an infant. But she'd walk through fire to protect him. 
     One day, about to shoplift an expensive bodysuit, Flo gets a notification: EMERGENCY AT SHOOL!!! Alfie Risby has vanished on a nature center field trip. Dylan and Alfie were partners.
     You see Dylan isn't like the other kids. He's the picked on loner whose only friend is a neighborhood septuagenarian who gives him crickets for his pet turtle. Unfortunately the boys have a history and Dylan was the last person who saw Alfie. So Flo can't be completely sure Dylan is innocent...
     ...especially when she finds Alfie's backpack stuffed under Dylan's bed.
     Now Flo's a woman on a mission. She's got to find a way to keep her son from being convicted and sent away...
     ...not an easy task when she's seriously lacking in skills and know how. Not to mention friends she can trust. And her impulsiveness isn't exactly helping. 
     If you're a fan of twisty mysteries with less than perfect protagonists thrust into desperate situations you'll find All The Other Mothers Hate Me to be a most satisfying read.
On a purrrsonal note, I've committed to volunteering with the Community Garden and Orono Public Library on a weekly basis, starting last week. Lucky for me playing paparazzi for the library counts as volunteering. They had a children's event last week. Those kids were too cute for words. 
A great big shout out goes out to the librarians, kids, and families. 
Jules Hathaway 
     



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Monday, May 19, 2025

These are my Sunday Goodwill finds. Aren't those boots incredible? Wonder Nation and practically new. Believe it or not kids footwear is usually better for your feet than much put out for younger women because parents buying shoes for kids prioritize health. So if you are small enough you can have boucoup style without sacrificing arch support. The reason for a kids art kit--they are great for working on my still lagging fine motor skills while having fun.



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Sunday, May 18, 2025

That Weekend (YA chiller)

"Earth, cold and rocky, pressing against my cheek. Tree roots digging into my body like hardened veins. I open my eyes to an assault of sunlight, wincing at the pain it sends radiating through my skull."
     Claire, narrator of Kara Thomas's That Weekend, is not in a good place. Fortunately she's been aroused by a dog whose owner is able to get help. Not so fortunately she's injured, alone on a mountain, with no idea where her two best friends are. 
     Claire, Kat, and Jesse had ditched prom to spend an unauthorized weekend at Kat's wealthy grandmother's mountain retreat. They've all lied to their parents about their destination. Now she has no memory of the events of quite a big chunk of time. The doctor says it's to be expected with brain injury...
     ...but that's not going to help the searchers who are frantically combing the parts of the mountain that are safe to venture into. It could take weeks--weeks Kat and Jesse don't have if they're also injured. 
     And rumors are flying around. What happened on the mountain is being considered a domestic incident, a possible murder-suicide brought on by Jesse's alleged depression. 
     When Claire gets out of the hospital she begins to investigate the disappearance. She's finding hints of inconvenient truths. Meanwhile the FBI has been brought in. And some people are betraying things she's told them in confidence.
     If only she could regain the memories of those missing days and life could go back to normal!
     If twisty mysteries seasoned with lies and deep dark secrets and deceptions are your cup of tea you're going to love That Weekend. 
On a purrrsonal note, it's weather wise been a rather drab weekend featuring intermittent mist and drizzle. But Eugene and I have been having fun. Saturday we went out to Governors for breakfast. And today we went on a road trip. At the Belfast Goodwill I bought myself a pair of iridescent wonder nation fleece lined boots for winter, a kids crafts kit, and a too small pair of jeans 👖 to turn into an over the shoulder bag. Then we went to our favorite antique super shop. I picked out stuff for myself and the girls. Eugene threw in a Squishmallow cat 🐈 😻 🐈‍⬛️ he picked out for me and paid for everything. Then we had a Burger King lunch. So despite the weather it was a great weekend. 
A great big shout out goes out to Eugene.
Jules Hathaway 



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Saturday, May 17, 2025

Last party picture

And here I am with my fabulous family: Brian, Amber, me, Eugene, Katie,  and Adam.



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Friday, May 16, 2025

You Can Be An Activist (juvenile Nonfiction)

     We live in a really scary time where so much is endangered including our one and only planet. Kids and teens are much more likely than older people in positions of power to realize that wishy washy incremental solutions to life or death scale crises just won't cut it. Decisive action is needed. Many younger people are very motivated to become involved but not sure how. 
     That's where Charlene Rocha and Mary Beth Leatherdale's You Can Be An Activist comes in. Beautifully organized, it teaches important skills such as educating people about issues, fund raising, incorporating creativity, and dealing with microaggressions. It even deals with the questions budding activists may be hesitant to ask. How do you come back from a mistake? What can you do to counter hostility?
     The format is excellent. The close inter weaving of text and Drew Shannon's vibrant illustrations makes You Can Be An Activist very visually inviting. Throughout out the text there are vignettes from Rocha's personal experiences and portraits of change makers and the effects they had. The reader is challenged to personally engage with the material. In Think Like An Activist they are urged to:
"*Look at the world around you with an open mind.
*Question what you have been taught to believe: Why do I think this way? Is it true? Is it fair?
*Identify inequities you want to change. 
*Stand up for people who are treated unfairly. 
*Do what you think is right even when others disagree."
     I highly recommend this book for its target demographic and way beyond. In the current world, given the complexity and intersectionality of issues, the abundance of misinformation, and the virulence of a social media with algorithms that prioritize conflict, it can be hard for anyone to become involved with issues of concern. And the under age to vote set are by far not the only ones who struggle with how to come back from a mistake and how to deal with hostility. 
On a purrrsonal note, Wednesday I was involved in a protest. The Orono Democrats are going to have one every week to raise consciousness and build solidarity. I'll go to the ones I can make. We got a lot of honks from passing cars and trucks. 
A great big shout out goes out to all who participated. 
Jules Hathaway 




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Thursday, May 15, 2025

Well here's another picture from my party showing everyone having a fine time. 



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Wednesday, May 14, 2025

Bright Red Fruit

"you might not understand it now,
but these rules are for your sake, not mine
i'm trying to keep you safe 
in this country where the culture is not our culture 
& the dangers are new dangers 
i am trying to keep you safe in a country i barely understand"
     Samira, protagonist of Safia Elhillo's Bright Red Fruit, has come into her teens in a community where girls are kept in line by strict and arbitrary rules and condemned as bad girls if they are perceived as breaking them. You probably know as well as me how well that works. Girls lead "doubled lives" hiding clothes and makeup that would be deemed unacceptable, lying about forbidden activities. Now sixteen, Samira and her besties, Lina and Tamadur, are experts at sneaking around, lying about activities, and hiding their shorts and crop tops.
     Samira has gotten on the bad side of the aunties, the authorities on vice and virtue. They gossip plenty, passing on unverified rumors, untrue rumors. Those allegations are really getting to her.
"every day i hear some story 
about someone seeing you around, 
what you're wearing, who you are with.
you are ruining your reputation 
& you are ruining mine."
    Samira aspires to become a poet and live in New York far from the eyes of the gossiping aunties. When a professional poet, an older man, begins to compliment her writing she falls and fast for him. When red flags begin to appear, when he treats her abusively and steals her work, she finds excuses for his behavior..
     ...until she feels that she's lost everything and everyone. 
     This poignant coming of age narrative is an engaging, insightful read for teens...
     ...and parents of teens.
On a purrrsonal note, I had the greatest Mothers Day. Eugene and I went on a road trip. We stopped at the Belfast Goodwill where he bought me some cool shirts. We had a Subway subs picnic. We stopped at Remys where he bought me what I wanted. It was such a beautiful drive with the new leaves, flowers, and flowering 💐 bushes! I talked to my kids who are so proud of me and excited about my rather eventful graduation. 
A great big shout out goes to the most wonderful kids in the world, namely mine.
Jules Hathaway 



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Tuesday, May 13, 2025

This is the gorgeous 🎂 from the party. My best friend Lisa Morin made it and her daughter decorated it. That made it extra special. Eugene and I really enjoyed the leftovers. 



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Monday, May 12, 2025

I hope this doesn't find you (YA fiction)

     When Sadie, protagonist of Ann Liang's I hope this doesn't find you, was quite young her father stormed out after a fight and never returned. She thought the fight was her fault. Now in high school, she's aspiring to get into the right college to achieve a career where she can earn enough to provide for her hard working mother and her seemingly unmotivated big brother. She's cutthroat competitive in the classroom, on the sports field, and for every recognition and honor available--especially with her classmate and nemesis, Julius. 
     Probably due to her experience with her father's desertion, she's careful not to anger or hurt anyone. She's always pleasant, willing to help even when she doesn't have time. Keeping a smile on her face, she doesn't reveal her real emotions...
     ...except in a series of emails to the people who aggravate her where she tells them what she's really thinking and feeling. It's all about blowing off steam. She'd never actually send them but...
     ...you guessed it. They get sent to these people and everyone else in her class. All of a sudden she's despised by her peers (and at least one faculty member) and wishing the school building would collapse on her.
     "Everywhere I go, whispers follow. From the way people are acting, you'd think I was caught murdering a man with my bare hands or something, but I guess this is a kind of murder. As of today, Sadie the Model Student, the Perfect School Captain, is effectively dead."
     But as Sadie struggles to navigate her new normal and possibly turn things around her nemesis is turning out to be not so adversarial, maybe deserving of a new role in her life.
     This truly engaging narrative will have a special appeal for the many teens who have had less than positive social media experiences. 
On a purrrsonal note, you would NOT believe my graduation. But what I'm about to tell you is 100% true. We graduates march in to the strains of Pomp & Circumstances. I'm glowing with pleasure and pride, remembering when both graduating and walking were purely aspirational. The speeches start. When the president is speaking all of a sudden she's talking about me--how at 73 I've come back from a stroke to complete my degree work. People seem to agree I'm inspiring because there's lots of applause and a guy is taking my picture and my classmates are all psyched. When I'm on stage I'm hooded and my name is called and I hear thunderous applause. I look at the audience. Everyone is clapping and people are starting to stand. I raise my hand to acknowledge their kindness. The president comes over, looking quite pleased and having her picture taken with me. By then the audience is in full blown standing ovation mode. My advisor and classmates are elated. I'm walking on air. This doesn't happen at UMaine graduations. When I'm waiting for Catherine all these people I don't know are congratulating me. Catherine and some friends stop at Sweet Frog 🐸 on the way home--a purrrfect ending for an evening to remember!!!
A great big shout out goes out to all who participated. 
Jules Hathaway 


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Sunday, May 11, 2025

Well even though I had an incredibly eventful weekend I'm way behind on picture sharing. So I'm going to try to alternate content better. This picture is from my Tuesday surprise party. It's my friend, Beth. Kathleen is signing a signature cat that was one of my gifts.



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Friday, May 9, 2025

American Midnight

     I've believed for quite awhile that the decade we're trying to survive bears strong similarities to the 1920s. There are abysmal gaps between the respective wealth of the obscenely rich and the desperately poor coupled with the belief that the plight of the latter is their own damn fault. There is a huge fear and distrust of immigrants and much effort put into shutting them out by any means necessary. Racism has not only flourished, but gone mainstream. I could say more, but I think you get the idea.
     I had no idea how horrific the years right before that time were until, skimming the new nonfiction titles in the Orono Public Library, I found Adam Hochschild's American Midnight: The Great War, A Violent Peace, and Democracy's Forgotten Crisis. It vividly evokes a very grim chapter in American history. 
     America was actually engaged in two wars. The official one over there and the more covert one against everyone the government was pissed off with. Draft dodgers were hunted down in all kinds of public venues. Conscientious objectors were subjected to inhumane torture. Union organizers were captured by all means: legal and otherwise. And nativists were doing their best to deport and keep everyone else out with the zeal of today's build a wall crowd.
     Lynching was still all too common in those not so good old days. The war gave the racists a new fear. Black soldiers were fighting valiantly over there and being treated with respect and dignity by people like the French. Attempts to keep them "in their place" when they returned to America were one of the reasons behind the brutal massacres in places like Chicago and Tulsa. 
     Censorship was alive and well, carried out by the postmaster general who had the power to decide what magazines and other materials could be unmailable based solely on his prejudices. In those pre internet days that was fatal for many publications. 
     Hochschild reminds readers that the evils of that time are still present in some form today and that keeping these dark forces from again overwhelming our nation will require a lot of us.
     "Brave men and women both inside and outside of the government, like those who spoke the truth and stuck to their principles more than a hundred years ago. A more equitable distribution of wealth, so that there will not be tens of millions of people economically losing ground and looking for scapegoats to blame. A mass media far less craven toward those in power than it was in 1917-21. And above all, a vigilant respect for civil rights and constitutional safeguards, to save ourselves from ever slipping into the darkness again."
     AMEN!!!
 On a purrrsonal note, today the higher education had a wonderful send off celebration for the graduates. There was a video where each of us had a glowing speech by someone we'd worked for. Mine was by my best friend, Lisa Morin. We got booklets with our pictures and stories and superlatives (mine is most likely to be director for student involvement) and bags of gifts. We had refreshments and time to socialize. And at the end we put on our regalia and went outside to take lots of pictures. I enlisted Catherine to be my paparazzi. You'll see pictures from this week later when my life slows down.
A great big shout out goes out to our wonderful professors--Elizabeth, Leah, and Kathleen--and everyone who helped them put on this truly memorable event and, of course, my precious classmates. 
Jules Hathaway 



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Thursday, May 8, 2025

Out Of Body (YA sci fi)

     I am usually so not a fan of science fiction, especially the kind involving technology. So I was surprised, verging on 😲 shocked when I couldn't put Nia Davenport's Out Of Body down. 
     Like many other high school students,  Megan wasn't exactly sure who she was and where she fit in. She'd drifted from one friendship group to another. When she meets LC she's sure she's finally found a bestie...
    ...But something goes horribly wrong on their first friendship anniversary. At a party LC offers Megan Molly. Although Megan has never done illicit drugs and has serious misgivings about them she takes it, not wanting to let LC down. She blacks out...
      ...and wakes up hours later, the party over and LC gone. When she gets home her parents and sister don't recognize her. In fact they threaten to call the cops if she doesn't leave. And there is a girl who looks just like her wearing her pajamas.
     The next morning a cop picks her up and  takes her to a hospital where a couple claim that she's their missing daughter, Jade. To get out of the hospital she plays along. So she has to learn and take on a whole new identity...
     ...while struggling to regain her body and life before it's too late...
     ...not knowing how powerful and dangerous and downright evil the entities behind the body stealings are. 
     Out Of Body is an excellent choice for sci fi readers' summer reading lists. 
On a purrrsonal note, yesterday one of my professors, Dr. Elizabeth Allan took me to Target to buy me a graduation outfit. She bought me a really cute and white dress, a white top to go under it, white jeggings, and an an adorable white jeans jacket. It was such a fun time and one of the kindest 💕 things anyone has ever done for me. Every time I wear those clothes I'll feel gratitude.
A great big shout out goes out to Elizabeth.
Jules Hathaway 



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Wednesday, May 7, 2025

The Meadowbrook Murders (YA chiller)

     Chillers set in snobby private schools with a lot of rot under the ivy are as scrumptious as Sweet Frog frozen yogurt with toppings. Jessica Goodman is a master of the genre. So her The Meadowbrook Murders, set in elite Meadowbrook Academy, is simply irresistible. 
     Amy and her bestie and suite mate, Sarah, have been looking forward to their senior year, especially the first week of fall term, when the other students haven't arrived and staff and faculty turn a blind eye on illicit parties. What could go wrong?...
     ...How about murder? One morning Amy wakes up with worse than a hangover. She finds Sarah and her boyfriend, Ryan, dead in Sarah's bed, drenched in blood. It doesn't take long before people begin suspecting Amy of the crime. After all, as suite mate she had opportunity. And because of a very public fight with Sarah the night before before she conceivably had motive. 
     Liz is the editor of the school paper,  now gone from paper to on-line. She's a scholarship student dedicated to journalism and determined to win the Page One scholarship with its prize of a full tuition grant to the higher education institution of their choice. The only problem--nothing journalism prize worthy ever happens at Meadowbrook until the double homicide. But her trying to cover the story runs afoul of the school's determination to control the narrative. 
     The school is in a state of panic, fearful that the culprit may strike again. Classes and the return of the other students are postponed indefinitely and the seniors are sequestered on campus where they huddle together not knowing who they can trust...
     ...while Liz struggles to solve the case with a very unlikely ally.
     Goodman's many fans and affecianados of truly twisty mysteries will really enjoy The Meadowbrook Murders. 
On a purrrsonal note you wouldn't believe what happened yesterday. I'd been asked to help make cat toys in the career center. Only to find out it was a HUGE graduation party 🥳 🎉 just for me. A whole bunch of departments collaborated on it. The decor was 🐈 😻 🐈‍⬛️ 🐱 of course. There were refreshments, mocktails, cards, present 🎁 s, a whole slide show about moi. My whole family was there. Katie and Adam drove up from Portland. I was loving every minute. It was one of the most incredibly wonderful magical days of my life. And yes you'll see pictures. 
A great big shout out goes out to all who put the party together and attended. 
Jules Hathaway 



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Tuesday, May 6, 2025

These are my treasures from Sunday's road trip. I'm going to wear those shoes in graduation. And aren't the shells enchanting?

Monday, May 5, 2025

Integrated (adult nonfiction)

     "My goal is to show the personal and national consequences of an educational justice arc that bent from segregated to de segregated and then back again and to explore the psychic price of experiencing, surviving, or failing to survive integration on communities, politics, and children. The sum of the debt owed may remain forever unknown, but I know the price is high."
     In her alarming, mind blowing, and ❤️ breaking Integrated: How American Schools Failed Black Children Noliwe Rooks shows how Brown v Board of Education (1954) did not issue in a time of educational equity utopia. Rather the system evolved to maintain white supremecy and privilege. Black children, teachers, families indeed paid an unconscionably cruel price.
     First of all it put a lot of kids in danger. In some places there were so many irate, venomous whites swarming the school it took the National Guard or even the Army to get the Black kids in and out. The pictures are horrific. School systems were shut down with funds that were supposed to go to public education getting siphoned off for private white only academies. Even schools that integrated put Black and white students on totally different academic tracks. 
     Most Black teachers and administrators lost their jobs. Black schools were shut down. Black teachers were also activists who fought for their students and taught them they mattered in a larger world that disagreed. Black schools were community centers. Now teachers were jobless, children were in hostile territory without their champions and communities were bereft.
     Rooks traces the consequences--both intended and unintended--of this landmark Supreme Court decision in a well researched and multidimensional narrative, made personal by her inclusion of the experiences of several generations of her family. A lot will leave you horrified and ❤️ broken. But she ends the book with a ray of hope in the form of community schools. 
     Integrated is a must read for everyone with connections to American public schools. 
On a purrrsonal note, we're now in finals week at UMaine. The campus is in full bloom and totally gorgeous. Yesterday despite the day
long drizzle Eugene and I we went on a road trip. I got a jar of beautiful little 🐚s at a garage sale and the most amazing totally on brand sneakers at an antique shop. Picture tomorrow. I  love summer yard sale road trips. I never know what I'll find. 
A great big shout out goes out to Eugene, my yard sale treasure hunting partner.
Jules Hathaway 


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Sunday, May 4, 2025

Well here is the program from Lavender Graduation and my cord which I'll wear proudly Saturday. Actually I learned about the program I'm in that is preparing me to pursue my dreams when I attended a friend's Lavender Graduation years ago. So now I've made it and am ready for the big ceremony next Saturday. 

Saturday, May 3, 2025

Cool. Awkward. Black.

"I didn't see many dark-skinned girls who had adventures or superpowers in the pages of the comics and novels I read. Nobody taught me about the Black women scientists making vital discoveries. Where were all the brown girls who performed on stage or wrote film scores? The scarcity of Black people in these spaces made it easy to believe that what I loved maybe couldn't love me back."
     When she grew up Karen Strong crafted the book she probably yearned for as a youth as editor of Cool. Awkward. Black. It is a real breath of fresh air. Very talented authors place Black teens front and center in roles they have been discouraged or downright prohibited from taking on, showing that what they love can indeed love them back.
     Nina, protagonist of Kalynn Bayron's Nina Evans, In The Round, has a magnificent voice and loves to sing. She yearns to go from crew work to acting in her school's production of The Sound of Music. She's much better than the competition. But is the person casting ready for a Black Maria?
     Some of these stories are out of this world. Working out with seriously outdated equipment in her school's underresourced astronomy department, Ingrid is able to summon extraterrestrials in Ibi Zoboi's Earth Is Ghetto. In Desiree S. Evans' High Strangeness UFO hunter Lola is celebrating her birthday 🎂 with a road/camping trip to Shine, Texas, a town famous (or infamous?) for close encounters of the eerie kind with her two besties and a new classmate who may have potential to be more than a friend. 
     You've got your serious gamers. Of course. Ex friends reconciling over crafts. Adventurers. Musicians. Genres and story lines for everyone centering Black teens. And since thanks to the contributer bios in the back if you really captivated by a story you can discover more by its author. 
On a purrrsonal note, I'm having a great Saturday. First Eugene and I went to Governors for breakfast. The waitresses had seen the story about me on Channel 5. They said our meal was on the house. In the afternoon I went to my lavender graduation which was awesome. Picture tomorrow. 
A great big shout out goes out to all who participated. 
Jules Hathaway 


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Friday, May 2, 2025

Just Say Yes (YA romance)

     If a pitch perfect YA romance is like Sweet Frog frozen yogurt and a social justice issue intrinsic to the plot is like the just right toppings then Goldy Moldavsky's Just Say Yes is the whole scrumptious sundae. (And you know I love me some Sweet Frog).
     "My mom is deathly afraid of cops, in the same way most people are afraid of bugs or rodents. If she sees one, she will let out a little startled yelp, grip her purse close to her chest, and cross the street immediately. I don't get it. It's not like she ever does anything to get on the police's bad side." 
     On the eve of her senior year Jimena learns the source of her mother's fear. She's thrown a party involving illegal fireworks 🎆. The police 🚔 have escorted her home. When they leave after giving her a warning her mother explains that they both are undocumented. 
     "This explains why it always felt like we were hiding from the world. I thought my mom was just paranoid, but now I know she had reason to be. Avoiding cops, avoiding government buildings. The never getting a better job, never getting a car. The fear of me ever needing to go to a hospital."
     Jimena sees the normal next steps in her life--college, learning to drive, even a senior trip to Canada--as suddenly out of reach. As her classmates progress into bright futures she'll be trapped in a shadow world. Worse, if she's deported, having come to America as a young child, she'll be trapped in a strange land in which she doesn't even speak the language. 
     When she discovers that marriage is a sure fire path to a green card she starts looking for a potential mate. Love, compatibility, common interests--none of that matters. It's purely performative--to get her life out of jeopardy and back on track.
     So when she's found someone actually decent who will marry her why does she have such mixed feelings?
     Just Say Yes is a truly engaging narrative served up with a side of enlightenment. And quite a ring of authenticity. Moldavsky herself was a Dreamer born in Peru like Jimena. 
On a purrrsonal note, today on campus there's all kinds of fun stuff: First Friday Bagels, zen garden making, the Darlings ice cream 🍦 truck, free lunch and tee 👕 s...I decorated my graduation cap. Even with 🌧 on and off it was a fun 😁 day. 
A great big shout out goes out to all the people responsible for the fun.
Jules Hathaway 



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Thursday, May 1, 2025

The Counselors

"Evil doesn't exist at Camp Alpine Lake. Not inside the wrought-iron gate that separates camp from the town of Roxwood, and not at the waterfront, where far-out buoys keep us isolated from the rest of New England...Camp is a bubble, made for bonfires and a sing-alongs and friendships made under the beam of a flashlight."
     A lot more than the gate separates the townies from the the seasonal intruders--the pampered campers and the counselors and parents who don't even tip. The relationship is like that between privileged tourists and year round residents in many Maine towns. As much as the townies would privately like the visitors to go away and never return, they know that would lead to regional economic devastation. You'd better believe they resent this dependency. 
     Goldie, narrator of Jessica Goodman's The Counselors, has one foot in each world. Because both of her parents work for Alpine Lake she's been able to attend, first as a camper and then as a counselor. It's the only place she feels safe and at home, a refuge from the drabness and poverty of her town.
     But her close associations with the despised camp taint her relationships with her peers and community. Especially in the year before the story begins when she takes the fall for an incident to protect her boyfriend's promising future. 
     That summer said boyfriend is found  floating dead in the carefully cordoned off camp swimming area. Camp administration silences the story. Trying to figure out what happened Goldie begins to discover inconvenient truths about her family of choice and how far they'd go to protect their beloved camp.
     "Before this summer, Camp Alpine Lake was a haven. An escape from what I could not face back home in Roxwood, only a few miles outside the gate. 
     But now Camp Alpine Lake is another place where I'll never feel safe."
On a purrrsonal note, I've just submitted my final homework assignment!!! The doctor looked at my ankle again and says I'm healing just fine. I can lose the boot before graduation. I'm enjoying the warmer weather and the flowers all over campus and the end of the year activities. Life feels really good. 
A great big shout out goes out to the UMaine class of '25!!!
Jules Hathaway 



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