Tuesday, September 30, 2025

Well, here's another couple of pages from my joy journal. I'm so over happiness. American capitalism has so comodified it. Read this book and do what it says or buy this product and you'll be happy. The pursuit of happiness. Don't worry; be happy. That's why I prefer to feel joy. It's spontaneous, not commercialized, not one size fits all. Over the last 24 hours things that have brought me joy have included being outside in the fresh air, bees and butterflies visiting my garden, sturdy little Tobago snuggling with me in bed, talking to Amber on the phone, and getting 2 Halloween shirts at Goodwill and lots of lovely produce at Hannaford. I started it the first semester after the stroke when it was so much harder to do so many things. It helped me be aware of how much joy was in my life despite residual damage. Adding entries and going back to read them is also a source of joy.



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Monday, September 29, 2025

Up In Smoke (YA fiction)

     "'Every time they take one of ours, it's tax season,' Jason continued. 'Time to hit the streets. I'm done with the peaceful marching. I'm robbing and looting from now on and I'll use that bread to build up the neighborhood, on some real Robin Hood type shit.'"
     Cooper, one of the narrators of Nick Brooks' Up In Smoke, is not down with robbing and looting. But he has deep loyalty to Jason who has been like a big brother to him. So when Jason decides to use a protest as a cover for a looting spree Cooper participates very reluctantly. 
     "This all started last weekend, the match that lit the fuse, when a kid named Samir was killed by a plainclothes cop. He was only fourteen, just a couple years younger than me. The craziest part was I knew Samir. He went to my high school and lived around the way. He was a quiet kid, not even a troublemaker like that."
     Mo, the other narrator, is Jason's blood little sister. She and Cooper are long time BFFs who are secretly crushing on each other. She actually organized the protest and is angry that some people are using it as a cover for robbing and looting, making it easy for cops to spin the narrative to suit their purposes. 
     "We froze for a hair of a second because we all knew what that sound was. 
     Gunshots. 
     Everyone erupted into absolute pandemonium, screaming, ducking down, and running every which direction."
     A woman has been shot. Jason is the sole suspect. Cooper and Mo know that the cops are intent on making sure he's convicted. They're equally intent on clearing his name and securing his freedom...
     ...which is going to be super daunting...
     ...especially since Cooper is also intent on keeping Mo in the dark about his role in the looting. 
On a purrrsonal note, yesterday Eugene and I went to Amber and Brian's house for a birthday lunch in their backyard. Brian's mom was there too. The food was delicious, the conversation convivial. A most enjoyable afternoon. The weather was purrrfect--sunny and breezy. The leaves in this part of Maine have really started to turn--more jewel toned reds, yellow, and oranges. Fall foliage is one of the most beautiful seasons in Maine, even though it heralds the grim approach of winter. Today I'm spending as much time as I can outside. My flowers are having a pollinators happy hour.
A great big shout out goes out to Amber and Brian, our family's hosts with the most.
Jules Hathaway 



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Sunday, September 28, 2025

That's me at the Black Bear Mutual Aid Fund table yesterday. As you can see the weather was perfect. I got a lot of compliments on my Halloween outfit featuring--of course--a cat. And people were asking me if I'll be in the drag show this year, raving about my last year's performance. It's not even October. This is shaping up to be a most excellent year.



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Saturday, September 27, 2025

Let's Move the Needle (adult nonfiction)

     I bet when you think of activism a lot of strategies come to to mind--maybe picketing, getting out the vote, boycotting, marching, and protesting among them. Probably not knitting, crocheting, embroidery, and cross stitch. Shannon Downey, author of Let's Move the Needle: An Activism Handbook for Artists, Crafters, Creatives, and Makers, is out to broaden your definition. Her reasoning is very persuasive. And her her photographs of crafters and crafts are colorful and engaging. 
     I love, love, LOVE what she's doing here. Traditional definitions of activism focus on extroverts who are comfortable getting out on the street and in front of the mic. They are also available to people who have time, resources, and transportation. But we need to engage the larger community and value their contributions to achieve real solidarity. This seems like a viable avenue to doing so.
     There are two parts of the book that particularly impress me. One is chapter 2 that starts with with "Want to change the world? Deal with your shit." It has some wonderful prompts for helping you understand your evolving personal and activist identity. It also has ways of moving beyond your comfort zone. 
     The other is how in the rest of the book the how tos get right down to the basics, making it accessible to people new to activism, and there are plenty of inspiring examples. Rather than a one time read, I see it as a valuable resource like my battered cookbook I got from my mom when I was 12.
     As I read the book I was thinking about a group that developed organically in a short time--Black Bear Mutual Aid Fund. At a hackathon Tamra was one of the students who needed a team and money to bring it from idea to actuality. I was on her team. Through very dedicated leadership it grew substantially in just 2 years. It does fundraisers and distributes the money to UMaine students, faculty, and staff facing financial hardship. So far over $20,000!!! It also does volunteering with community organizations. It benefits not only aid recipients but students who experience the thrill of making a difference. 
     I know reading Let's Move The Needle inspired me to come up with ideas. Maybe it can inspire you too. 
On a purrrsonal note, fortunately after our rainy Thursday the weather cleared up--all blue skies and sunshine--in time for two major UMaine outdoor events that would have been hard to hold indoors. I was paparazzi for both. Friday's was an informational event to raise student awareness of the resources on campus avaliable to help them--everything from SWell (Student Wellness) and the Counseling Center to Financial Aid to Residential Life and so many more. Each group had a table. People who got a stamped passport from every table were entered in a prize drawing. There were also fun foods (snow cones, cotton candy, hot dogs), mocktails,  and games. Very popular. Today  was Family and Friends weekend. So many people and dogs came. The mall was covered with tables, games, demonstrations, vendors, and food trucks--something for everyone. The mood was decidedly festive. There were so many fun pictures to take. Like the dogs and their people, a baby in a stroller, and action shots. At both events I was so happy to be engaged and have my skills valued. 
A great big shout out goes out to all who participated in both events. 
Jules Hathaway 
     



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Thursday, September 25, 2025

Wednesday, September 24, 2025

This is Amber giving her author's talk yesterday. She did an awesome job. I am very proud of her.
I am so excited that I can stay home tomorrow and make some progress on my rapidly growing to do list. I just wish it wasn't going to rain. My laundry is really piling up. 
Jules Hathaway 



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Tuesday, September 23, 2025

Dungeons and Drama (YA fiction)

     I don't know if Shakespeare actually said these words or if they have been attributed to him, but when I read Kristy Boyce's Dungeons and Drama "Oh, what a tangled web we weave when we endeavor to deceive!" kept popping into my mind. Deception and its complications (the tangled web) lie at the beating 💓 of the narrative. 
     Two weeks into her junior year (high school) Riley is confronted by her egotistical ex, Paul, the "absolute last person" she wants to see. He claims she's been avoiding him.
     "Um, of course I've been avoiding him. It's just self-preservation to avoid any tool who makes you wipe snot bubbles away while telling you that your talents could be better utilized as part of the stage crew."
     Tired of Paul's attitude, Riley tells him that she's moved on and found someone new. When he asks for names she comes up with Nathan...
     ...which is problematic for several reasons. Their passions (musical theater vs gaming) seem to be totally incompatible. And Nathan is totally smitten with the beautiful Sophia...
     ...which Riley uses to her advantage by persuading him that it will make Sophia see what a total catch he is and get jealous...
     ...But nothing in this narrative is simple. Remember what I said about those tangled webs? If relationship intrigue is your cup of tea you owe it to yourself to read Dungeons and Drama. 
On a purrrsonal note, today was a super exciting one for me. My favorite author who also happens to be my older daughter, Amber, did an author's talk on campus. It was AMAZING!!! The really big room was packed. She gave an excellent, really engaging talk. She got lots of questions which she answered really well. Afterwards people told me I should be proud of her. How could I not? 
A great big shout out goes out to my fabulous author daughter, Amber, and to the people who are buying her book and attending her events. 
Jules Hathaway 
     



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