Saturday, August 9, 2025

Jane Against The World (YA Nonfiction)

"Imagine that you're sixteen years old and still in school. Now imagine that you have just discovered that you're pregnant--or your girlfriend is pregnant. 
     What does that mean to you?
     What does that mean to your life from now on?
     What do you want to do?
     What can you do?
     What are you going to do?"
     The short first page of Karen Blumenthal's Jane Against The World: Roe V. Wade And The Fight For Reproductive Rights really personalizes an explosive and controversial issue for younger readers. What if the person potentially needing an abortion was you or someone you love?
     In a situation I'd never anticipated that person was me. A sonogram showed me that the fetus I was carrying had no heartbeat, a situation incompatible with life. The miscarriage went on and on. After forty days of bone deep chills, fever, and agonizing cramps I got an abortion. It was done in a hospital as a routine medical procedure. I remember thinking how lucky I was that I wasn't in a country where this action or even a simple miscarriage could have put me in prison, unable to parent my beloved daughters. That was when pregnant people enjoyed the protection of Roe V. Wade.
       When this landmark legislation was overturned chaos ensued. Now states differ widely on what is a legal reason to terminate a pregnancy and some have very few. Going to another state isn't always even feasible. Girls and women can be trapped in really horrendous situations. A woman I know found out that a very much wanted unborn, because of a genetic defect, would never know a moment of consciousness and wouldn't live beyond 18 months. In many states she would have to carry this fetus to term. 
     "The issue is not whether we do or don't have abortions. The issue is where--in some dirty hotel room or some dingy back room of a doctor's office, or in a hospital under proper medical care."
     I think we can agree that the third option is the best. And knowledge is one of the most essential tools to achieve access to it for all people needing abortions. Jane Against The World gives a comprehensive analysis of the the long history leading up to Roe V. Wade. It gives readers a candid look at the events and actors involved. But I think what I like best about Jane Against The World is the intersectional approach it takes, showing its relationship to classism, racism, eugenics, and forced sterilization. It's the book I'd give my daughters if they weren't already probably more knowledgeable than me.
     I see this fine book as a most worthwhile acquisition for high school and public libraries.
On a purrrsonal note, I was able to see my friend Lynn Plourde for the first time in ages. Lynn is the author of over 40 excellent published books, many of which I've reviewed for this blog and the Bangor Daily News. She was doing a children's program for the Old Town Public Library. I always enjoy watching Lynn in action. She has a special ability to connect with kids--keeping them engaged and excited. I learn so much. And it was such a treat to have time to chat afterwards. Lynn and I go way back. And I sure am lucky to have her in my life.
A great big shout out goes out to the incomparable one and only Lynn Plourde. Your library most likely has at least a few of her fine books. Check them out, especially when you need a simply irresistible read aloud. Also to the staff of the Old Town Public Library. 
Jules Hathaway 



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Friday, August 8, 2025

My diploma

Well, fam, it finally came and I couldn't be more proud. Earning it was a for real challge--especially after the stroke. But I did it. Now on to getting a job and getting my manuscript published. 
Tomorrow is the trailer coop barbeque. I have dozens of gorgeous backpacks stuffed with school supplies ready to give out to the kids. It's Backpack Project's 6th year and going strong thanks to our generous contributors. 



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Thursday, August 7, 2025

How We Ricochet

     "Takes a moment for it to sink in: the gunman is the dead man, the injured are the women I heard him shoot, the retail store is the last place I visited. 
     I was there."
     Betty, protagonist of Faith Gardner's How We Ricochet had expected a trip to the mall to buy her mother work clothes for her new job to be rather boring. In fact she'd ditched her mom and older sister, Joy, to go to the nearby cupcake shop. She was there when a gunman opened fire in the clothes store where she'd left her family. 
     "'We're fucking lucky,' Joy says. 'There were so many bullets. We should have died.'
     'I'm so glad you're okay,' Mom says, holding Joy's head to her chest."
     But Joy really isn't. The sister who Betty considered a badass--who rode a motorcycle, played bass guitar, and gave herself a tattoo--now can't leave the house. She's dropped her college classes. And she's ditched her job for so long that she's lost it.
     But her mother's way of coping has her MIA when it comes to her older daughter's crisis. Being interviewed by NBC has inspired her to become a gun control activist. Between this engagement and her job that pays the bills she really doesn't have time for anything else. And now she's getting death threats.
     The dead gunman's younger brother is an acquaintance of Betty. In desperation she tries to befriend him. Maybe he can give her the insights that can assuage Joy's crippling fears and empower her to keep her family safe.
On a purrrsonal note, I've regained another skill. A guy in my trailer coop told me I can swim in his pool. I hadn't been in a pool since before the stroke. It was literally sink or swim. At first I kept sinking like a stone. But I kept trying. I got to where I could swim across the pool. It felt so good to be cutting through the water with an evening breezes mitigating the sun's heat. Truly a time of unmitigated joy!!!
A great big shout out goes out to the kind neighbor with the pool. 
Jules Hathaway 



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Wednesday, August 6, 2025

I'm sharing this picture because bees are such precious pollinators and a challenge to capture in pictures--they're in constant motion. 



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Tuesday, August 5, 2025

Disposable (adult nonfiction)

"For too many people, misery is the formal policy of the United States. The lucky few at the top tell a different story about this country. America is fair, they say, and the meritorious rise to the top. The reality is less flattering."
     Back when people were trying to understand COVID-19 patterns became discernible in the contagion and mortality statistics. Some groups were becoming ill and dying at much higher rates than others. Pretty predictably those were the people the rich and powerful and the legislators in their pockets considered disposable: the BIPOC, the poor, people with disabilities and comorbidities, older people, and the essential workers who had to go into jobs where catching a potentially fatal disease and bringing it home to loved ones was a clear and present danger and they often weren't provided the most basic personal protection equipment by the companies that were gleaning huge profits from their forced sacrifices. 
     A lot of people were shocked by the revelations. Not Sarah Jones, a senior writer for New York magazine. In Disposable: America's Contempt For The Underclass she makes one thing perfectly clear: COVID-19 didn't start anything; it simply made evident what the rich and powerful were hiding for a long time--basically since this nation's inception...
     ...that there is an inherent and vicious conflict of interest between those at the top who want to make obscene amounts of money while keeping the majority of fellow citizens poor enough to exploit ruthlessly and the rest of us. I'll give you an example from the book that is very personal to me. Even as COVID-19 was keeping the grim reaper working overtime, even as most of us were sorta focused on staying alive, the rich and their friends in government were flat out stating that the emphasis on life saving was misguided. Those of us considered disposable shouldn't stand in the way of reopening the country to business as usual even if we'd pay the ultimate price. I was an older person--68 to be exact--when this was going down. My reaction to the more than suggestion that I should lay down my life on the altar of capitalism was NO FUCKING WAY!
     Jones does a deep dive into all aspects of the brutal COVID-19 reckoning and the national history that made it inevitable. She does a very commendable job balancing facts and statistics with the stories of many who needlessly lost their lives. If you're bothered by the brutal inequities that sacrificed the lives of millions for the profit of the few and you want things to change, especially if, like me, you're considered acceptable collateral damage, Disposable most definitely belongs on your summer reading list. 
On a purrrsonal note, I really lucked out in the pandemic. I was just starting grad school when UMaine went online and my biggest challenge was adapting from in person to virtual learning. I think I had a mild case in Christmas break '22, but I was fine after a week of lying around. Eugene was an essential worker so we had a continuous source of income. I was able to get zoom counseling for anxiety through my school. I had precious Tobago for company and my family and friends to keep me from feeling isolated. I wasn't even bored because I binge ordered inter library loans and my friend, Emily who can drive to deliver them right to my door and Eugene and I could safely get away for weekends at our camp in the woods. And I had the assurance that when UMaine went back to in person learning my job would be waiting for me. 
A great big shout out goes out to Jones for her brilliant truth telling. 
Jules Hathaway 



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Monday, August 4, 2025

My best weekend yard sale finds. I now have a dedicated hiking backpack. 



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Sunday, August 3, 2025

Between Two Brothers (juvenile fiction)

     When I was a preteen suddenly having to cope with a drastically changed family and community after my younger sister, Harriet, survived spinal meningitis with severe and permanent residual brain damage I felt isolated. I didn't know anyone else in my situation. As a devoted reader I turned to the library to find a character like myself...
     ...only to find nothing. There were no siblings of children with profound disabilities as protagonists. Actually there were very few people with handicaps in books and they tended to be portrayed as saintly overcomers of odds or tragic victims. Fortunately today this situation has changed for the better. One of the best examples of this is Crystal Allen's Between Two Brothers. 
     Ice (Isaiah) and his older brother, Seth, are much closer than most sibling pairs. The farming family brothers are best friends who look out for one another. They have a special saying, between brothers, to emphasize their sibling solidarity. As Seth starts his last year of school Ice is determined to make the most of their last full year together...
     ...except it doesn't exactly work out that way. Seth starts blowing off commitments he's made to Ice. Then Ice learns that Seth will be leaving for college a semester early. The boys fight. Ice is filled with regret and a need to apologize...
     ...which doesn't happen because Seth gets in a car accident, suffering such severe brain injury he has to be put in a medically induced coma. His doctor doesn't know if he'll ever again walk, talk, or even open his eyes.
     The ring of authenticity is there in all facets of the book from Ice's complex and sometimes contradictory personality through Allen's refusal to provide an unrealistic happy ever after to realistic descriptions of the challenges the family faces such as when they have two days to acquire the medical equipment and expertise to care for Seth when he comes home from the hospital. 
     So it should come as no surprise that Allen wrote from life experience. A catastrophic accident changed her family dynamics. She could see the impact not only on her injured child, but on her older child, herself, and her husband. Although its characters are fictional, she describes Between Two Brothers as the story she was living. 
On a very purrrsonal note, when I was 11 one evening I wanted to play with Harriet's new Mouse Trap game. Harriet said no. I said "I hate you. I hope you die." Mom and I spent the weekend at a Girl Scout camping weekend. Then Sunday we were speeding back because Harriet was in the hospital probably dying. I thought God was fulfilling what He thought was a request. I asked him please not to kill her. So I thought it was my fault when she didn't die but was never the same. I wish my parents were as unified as Ice's parents were. My father wanted to give Harriet's custody to a state hospital, not waste money on her. My mother thought Harriet's disabilities were only temporary. She could still become a lawyer. The first Christmas after Harriet's catastrophic illness she gave a recording of famous supreme court cases. I wisely refrained from saying that Harriet had as much of practicing law as our cats did.
I real love an Emile Zola quote Allen includes in the introduction: "We are like books. Most people only see our cover. The minority read only the introduction. Many people believe the critics. Few will know our content." A great big shout out goes out to the really special people in my life who have gone past my cover and introduction to see (and love) my content. 
I will have amazing news to include in my next book review. 
Jules Hathaway 

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Friday, August 1, 2025

The Stepping Off Place (YA fiction)

     There is something different and disturbing about losing a loved to suicide that isn't present in losing them any other way. It's the element of choice, that they decided to leave permanently, that raises painful questions. Why did they? Why couldn't they believe that things could get better? Why didn't I notice the signs and do something before it was too late?
     I was lucky. I was an adult when my cousin took his life, leaving the three young children he was single parenting. I can't imagine what it would be like to lose a loved one to suicide during the already tumultuous teens. That's the plight of Reid, protagonist of Cameron Kelly Rosenblum's The Stepping Off Place. 
     Reid and Hattie have been besties since they were in middle school although they have distinctly different personalities, Hattie being the charismatic, popular, colorful, and impulsive sun the more reserved and cautious  Reid moon revolves around. As the story begins Reid is eagerly awaiting Hattie's return from her annual summer spent with extended family in Maine. Their senior year is going to be epic, their exit from high school unforgettable. 
     But right before Hattie is due to return Reid's parents have to tell her that Hattie drowned the night before and that it's being considered suicide. 
     Reid can't believe that her vivacious, fun loving friend who had seemingly everything going for her would take her own life. She wishes her parents and guidance counselor would leave her alone. But as she investigates and learns of the many secrets people close to Hattie were keeping she discovers that even people who seem to have perfect lives can be overwhelmed with sadness. 
     The Stepping Off Place is a beautiful example of show, don't tell. In the text that moves between before and after chapters readers can navigate the complex and constantly changing relationships of the characters--the human milliu in which the story takes place. Seeing the world through Reid's eyes conveys the rawness and nearly unbearable pain of her grief. 
     This story is a very personal one for Rosenblum who lost a treasured long term friend. I'm going to quote extensively from her author's note here because trying to paraphrase such eloquence could never do it justice. 
     "Writing this book was a way for me to grieve and to confront what scared me to the core: that a person can at once be so funny and fun and beautiful, have all manner of creature comforts, can be loved by many, but also can secretly be suffering a sadness so immense, it's unimaginable to those who have never experienced major depression. To the person inside depression, it can seem like an unstoppable fog bank--distorting and disorienting, a suffocating, endless gray despair. 
     The Stepping Off Place started off as a rallying cry for myself. I wanted to explore how we who are left trying to make sense of a shattering and seemingly senseless loss, can come out the other side of that fog bank with our human spirit intact. Because I believe that we can--maybe not as the same person, but as someone who can carry on with the messy business of living a life, with all its joys and heartaches, loves and losses."
On a personal note, yesterday I got my diploma in the mail. I am so proud of it! Today I am taking Tobago to the vet for her annual checkup and shots. She is so not a fan!!! Wish me luck wrestling her into her cat 🐈 😻 🐈‍⬛️ carrier. 
A great big shout out goes out to the Veazie Vet crew.
Jules Hathaway 



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Thursday, July 31, 2025

The Sinners All Bow (adult nonfiction)

     When I thought about true crime I used to envision those dreadful supermarket tabloids and cheap paperbacks with lurid covers that according to my Shakespeare scholar English professor mother only certain people (not us) read. Now the popular podcasts that have made the genre so much more mainstream come to mind. But I certainly never envisioned a cold case that goes back, not years or decades but centuries and inspired one of those classic novels by long deceased white men most of us had to discuss the themes of to pass high school English...
     ...until I read Kate Winkler Dawson's The Sinners All Bow: Two Authors, One Murder, and the Real Hester Prynn. 
     On a frigid December night in 1832 Rhode Island farmer John Durfee stumbled upon a gruesome sight. The body of a young woman, Sarah Maria Cornell, was found hanging by her neck. 
     Back then they didn't have the resources we have now to identify causes of death. The men, without examining Sarah (because preparation of corpses for burial was women's work then) proclaimed that she had committed suicide. Her doctor, who lived nearby, had said she was pregnant out of wedlock. They figured in light of this evidence of her sinful conduct well of course she'd want to take her life.
     The women who washed Sarah's body disagreed. They had found massive evidence of violence and realized that she was murdered. When they were looking through her possessions to try to locate nearest of kin they found a slip of paper with a cryptic message. If she was ever missing they should look for Ephraim Avery, a very charismatic Methodist minister. 
     Anyone who has ever set foot in a Methodist church in this century will find this hard to believe (as I did), but in the early decades of the nineteenth century the Methodist Church was not part of the religious establishment. With their "not properly trained" clergy and those scandalous outdoor revivals, presumed to be the site of sexual promiscuity and other sins, Methodist ministers were the cautionary tale Congregational and Episcopal congregations were warned about in Sunday sermons. So a lot of people then would have believed a minister murdering to cover up evidence of his misdeeds to be highly credible.
     The book's subtitle alludes to two authors. Catherine Read Arnold Williams came on the scene about half a year after Sarah's death when the trial of her accused killer was breaking news. She was a divorced single parent at a time when it was very challenging. She was supporting herself and her daughter by revenue from her published books. Her methodology and the reflection that went into writing Fall River, considered by many to be America's true crime story, constitutes an important strand in the overall narrative. 
     The second author, Kate Winkler Dawson, entered the picture about a century and a half after Catherine's death. She was able to bring the investigative techniques developed since the early nineteenth century to an analysis of not only the crime and investigation, but the work and biases of her deceased co author.
     So who would I recommend The Sinners All Bow to? 1) True crime story affecianados. We're talking solid narrative with a lot of suspense and complexity. 2) History buffs with an interest in the early years of the industrial revolution. 3) Feminist scholars for its insights into the position of women in this tumultuous time.
On a purrrsonal note, Eugene and I had a super 36th anniversary. He took me to Applebee's for supper and then we went for a drive. It was very hot and humid. I've been putting the backpacks 🎒 together to distribute at the barbeque. I just have to buy a few more items with donated money. I'm really looking forward to seeing the happy kids and families. 
A great big shout out goes out to Eugene and to people who have donated backpacks, school supplies, and money. 
Jules Hathaway 



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Tuesday, July 29, 2025

All The Noise At Once

     Before you read this review I want you to do a little exercise. Close your eyes and recall an experience where everything was coming at you too fast and it was totally overwhelming at all levels including visceral. Try to experience it through as many senses as possible. What were you seeing, hearing, smelling, touching? I think it can get you to better empathize with Aiden, narrator of DeAndra Davis' All The Noise At Once.
     Aiden and his star quarterback big brother, Brandon, are really into football. With Brandon about to graduate high school they want one season together on the team. Aiden has done a lot of preparation. But when summer tryouts come around he becomes over stimulated and doesn't make the cut even though his awareness of game strategies is superior...
     ...Aiden is autistic...
     ...However when the team unexpectedly loses two players Aiden becomes a member. Not all his teammates share Brandon's enthusiasm. They're one way when their QB is around and quite another in his absence. 
     "'Ay, come on, dude. That's out of line. We all been cool since we been kids. You know what's up with him. Don't do that.' Greg says now.
     'No, we've been cool with Brandon since we were kids,' Carter says. 'We've just had to deal with Aiden because our moms and Brandon never want to leave him out.'"
     One evening when the team is hanging out inside and on the grounds of a popular restaurant Carter starts a fight with Aiden. Things escalate rapidly especially when a white bystander calls the cops. When Brandon (who is Black) tries to come to Aiden's rescue, he is tackled by a gun wielding white cop...
     ...who charges Brandon with assaulting an officer. The case is bumped up to adult court despite Brandon being underage. Now his future is very bleak. Instead of attending a good college on an athletic scholarship he could very well end up serving time in an adult prison. 
     All The Noise At Once is one of the rare sports narratives that seamlessly integrates highly relevant social justice issues. I highly recommend it for football players and fans. 
On a purrrsonal note, well, today is a big day--Eugene's and my 36th anniversary. I'm looking forward to us going out to eat which is how he likes to celebrate. I'm going to ditch my usual summer ☀️ attire--short shorts and cat shirts--for a dress and jewelry. Whatever we do I'm super grateful that we're still together because he is the love of my life. 
A great big shout out goes out to my one and only Eugene. 


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Sunday, July 27, 2025

Anders & Santi Were Here

     I think those first months when two people are falling in love and developing an intimate relationship are enchanted and magical. I know this was the case for Eugene and me. The places we went, the thoughtful gifts he gave me were just too perfect for words. One day that really stands out in my memory is the day he gave me his class ring on a chain around my neck. We went to Orono Festival. It was like something out of a Hallmark movie. 
     One reason we could be so carefree and happy was a privilege neither of was thinking about back then: birthright citizenship. We didn't have to fear government agents raiding his workplace or my school, sending one or both us into danger, splitting us apart probably forever. In Ander & Santi Were Here Jonny Garza gives readers an intimate look at a romance constantly endangered by America's anything but just immigration policies and their cruel enforcement. 
     Anders was born and has lived in Texas all his life. A recent high school graduate, he's taking a year off before college. He's got a lot to think about: who he wants to be as a mural artist, who the school perceives him as, and whether they are even congruent. He has a residency creating murals through a local agency: Beautify Not Gentrify. And he works at his family's restaurant. 
     His parents aren't happy that he's taking this year off. They want him officially in college studying for his real career. So his mother fires him and hires an undocumented teen, not having a clue that this will complicate, rather than simplify Anders' life.
     Santi and his family have had to flee Mexico. In America he's been separated from his mother and sister. He talks to them on the phone, but it's not the same.
     When the boys fall in love it's good for both of them. Anders gets a clearer vision of what he wants his art to be. Santi begins to get a feeling of what home can be.
     Unfortunately there's ICE on the hunt. 
     In his author's note Villa makes a really important point that I haven't seen expressed elsewhere. Many "allies" are only speaking up a certain type of immigrant: "the valedictorian, future first-generation college student who came here as a baby." He ends the piece by saying:
     "And I hope that, together, those of us who can will stand side by side with all our undocumented hermanes. Even those who aren't DACA kids, who aren't refugees with a morning-show-worthy backstory, who aren't STEM geniuses. I hope that, together, we can uplift those voices and the voices of all undocumented people to make this world a more just, loving, and moral place."
     AMEN TO THAT!!!
On a purrrsonal note, Eugene and I are having quite a weekend. Yesterday we went to a party 🥳 🎉 at the in-laws. I was so happy to get to spend time with Katie, Jacob, and Adam. Pictures, I promise. Today we went on a yard saling road trip. We found lots of good stuff including backpacks and pencils for Backpack Project. Eugene got us subs for lunch. On Tuesday we'll celebrate our 36th anniversary. And I'm every bit as much in love as in those early days I mentioned. Like a Hallmark movie except IRL.
A great big shout out goes out to the one and only Eugene, the love of my life. 
Jules Hathaway 



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Friday, July 25, 2025

On Again, Awkward Again (YA fiction)

     The transition to high school is or was incredibly awkward for so many of us--and not just because of increased academic responsibilities and challenges. There's hormones and body changes. There's discovering identity in the face of societal, marketing, and peer pressure. And there's negotiating relationships including those with romantic potential. Erin Entrada Kelly and Kwame Mbalia nicely address that awkwardness in their On Again, Awkward Again. 
     Pacy is a big time Star Trek fan who caries her enthusiasm over into regular life. She considers most of her new classmates to be Borgs. She has a younger sister for whom everything comes so much easier: academics, extracurricular, relalationships.
     Cecil copes with irritable bowel syndrome and major league allergies. These do not exactly do wonders for his social life. His perfect sibling is his older brother, Cedric. 
     Although Pacy and Cecil develop a mutual crush in a first day of school encounter in the school nurse's office has the social skills or self confidence to pursue it. Then they both end up on the committee to plan the freshman dance. Will this mutual engagement be the catalyst to convert crush into romance or drive them even further apart? Only one way to find out. 
     There's only one this I seriously dislike about this book and a lot of other YA volumes. I've hit the point where I have to see something/say something. Ageism is one of the few acceptable stereotypes in America. Too many YA authors take advantage of this. Writers who would never commit sexist, homophobic, ableist etc microaggressions portray older people as doddering, clueless, and feeble, basically falling apart at the seams. And this does matter immensely for at least three reasons. 
1) Older people are as diverse a group as any other demographic. Some of us are still very much in the game. At 73 (and after a stroke) I just earned my masters degree from Maine's flagship university the month after performing in the school's drag show to thunderous applause and $94 in tips. Would you say I'm not exactly doddering?
2) Driving a wedge between older people and youth is wrong. Both groups have so much to offer each other. That's why I love working with undergrads so much and they adore me. And some of us are as passionate about the environment, Black Lives Mattering, and other crucial social justice issues as we were back in the day. It takes a village to save a planet.
3) All the clues younger people are given about aging will effect the quality of their life in their older years. Now and as they enter the workforce they are bombarded with messages from the media, Hallmark cards, the plastic surgeons who make big bucks off their fear of not looking younger, and so many others that preach that from a certain age it's all decline. There are even doctors who see clinical depression as inevitable and consider referring older adults to a counselor a waste of time and money. What RESEARCH tells us is that people who go through their adult years with a positive view of aging not only are healthier and happier and more engaged and connected as they get along in years, they tend to live over seven years longer than their more pessimistic about aging peers.
     So how about it, YA authors--can you please portray us with the same dignity and respect  for our diversity and humanity as you do for other marginalized groups?
On a personal note, I'm really starting to like my Riverside Park walking loop. Yesterday I noticed a note on a nearby house's lawn: help yourself to raspberries. I sure did. I also this amazing sign on the property that I'll share with you tomorrow. Today I saw a 🐿 and a 🐍 and I got a picture of the 🐍. 
A great big shout out goes out to the people kind enough to share their raspberries. 
Jules Hathaway 



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Thursday, July 24, 2025

This is the picture I promised you yesterday. See how gentle the boy is. And notice the frog is, not trying to get away. Once he put it on the ground it showed perfectly good hopping ability. It's like it trusted him.
We have to fight for a world that's better for frogs and children. 



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Wednesday, July 23, 2025

Better Than Revenge

     Some losses or hurts are harder to get over than others. Sometimes there isn't anyone to blame like when I lost precious Joey cat to cancer or now when the diet I'm on to keep blood pressure down cuts out every food I actually enjoy. But often there is. In that case revenge can seem like a rational and potentially very satisfying option. Anyone who has been in this situation--and TBH I believe most of us have--will most likely want to put Kasie West's Better Than Revenge on the old summer reading list. 
     Finley's career goal is to become a famous podcaster. She has a private podcast and really enjoys creating it. She especially loves profiling not famous people who lead interesting lives. And she has a plan to achieve this goal. 
     "It was finally time. Only seniors host the school's podcast, and they were in charge of auditions. I'd been waiting since freshman year for this. Two and a half years of broadcasting classes where I learned about soundboards and soundproofing and advertising and creative segues. About hot-button topics and interviewing. All to prepare me for this moment."
     Finley is auditioning for one of the two cohost spots on the school's podcast. It would not only provide valuable professional experience, but lead to an internship at the community college. In other words--high stakes competition...
     ...that she loses to her boyfriend--about to become ex boyfriend--who has absolutely no interest in podcasts or professional experience. Not only that but he seriously disrespects her the first time he's on air.
     Can't hardly blame Finley for going for revenge. He's taken a dream away from her. Now she's going to do the same to him by earning the football position he has his ❤️ set on. And his nemesis is going to help her do just that. 
On a purrrsonal note, the children's garden and community gardens are in beautiful bloom. Veggies are being harvested. Gardeners are enjoying the delicious raspberries and blueberries. I am really enjoying the chance to photograph the kids. Yesterday I had a really joyous experience. A 4-year-old boy had caught a frog. He was holding it very gently. His mom was persuading him to release it. I asked him if he'd like me to take his picture with the 🐸. It turned out to one of my all time best pictures. Tomorrow with his mom's consent I'll share the picture with you. 
A great big shout out goes out to the children's garden/community garden crew.
Jules Hathaway 



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Monday, July 21, 2025

The War On Kids

     Many people aren't bothered by the way America is way out of step with the rest of the industrialized world in the number of youth we incarcerate for seriously long stretches of time. To them it's a simple matter of you do the crime; you serve the time. Law professor Cara Drinan isn't one of them. In The War On Kids: How American Juvenile Justice Lost Its Way she totally shreds that argument in an expert blend of law, science, and narratives of children captured by the system. 
     One of the boys whose story she shares, Kuntrell Jackson, was only fourteen when he committed the acts that resulted in a sentence of life in prison with possibility of parole. The sentencing judge claimed that he had chosen to throw his life away even though he had so much going for him. Drinan saw fit to disagree. She uses him as an example of how many kids are predestined for prison from the start. 
     First of all there are the factors in their early environments that damage them profoundly  physically, developmentally, cognitively, emotionally, and socially and make them much. more likely to enter the system: growing up in poverty, being BIPOC, a family history of incarceration, and exposure to violence in the home.
     And then there's the legal and policy mechanisms that further stack the deck against them:
*zero tolerance policies and the school to prison pipeline;
*transfer laws that let juveniles be tried and sentenced as adults;
*ineffective counsel for juveniles 
and *mandatory minimum sentences.
     But toward the back Drinan shares some rays of hope. Some Supreme Court decisions have gone in the right direction. And she outlines some powerful ways that in the war on kids kids and their allies have a fighting chance.
On a purrrsonal note, Eugene and I  had a lovely weekend at camp. It was sunny 🌞 and breezy and not too hot. We saw deer a couple of times.  There were hardly any mosquitoes. And we lucked out on yard sales. Sunday when we got home I decided to find the Riverside Park I'd discovered in 2020. It's really pretty and the same length as my other training routes. Now I have three. I got home just as the rain 🌧 that would last the rest of the day started. 
A great big shout out goes out to Eugene. 
Jules Hathaway 



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Sunday, July 20, 2025

This is the most recent page in my joy journal. I started it my first semester back at school after the stroke. Basically I use words and stickers to capture precious moments. Easy way to be more aware of them and to make sweet memories. I'll share more pages as I create them.



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Friday, July 18, 2025

Picture Book Round Up

     A librarian friend of mine mentioned that it's been awhile since I've reviewed a picture book. Oops! I raided the Orono Public Library juvenile new books and came up with enough to do a nice little round up.

     Adventure loving kids will find the real life story To Walk The Sky: How Iroquois Steelworkers Helped Build Towering Cities (by Patricia Morris Buckley) fascinating. Can you imagine working hundreds of feet in the air balanced on a narrow steel where one slip could be fatal? I think you'll agree that's not for the faint of heart. 
     Buckley shares the history of the skywalkers from over a century ago when those were the few jobs through which a Mohawk man could support a family to the present when native men and women practice this profession in cities in America and Canada. It's a very personal narrative for her. Her great grandfather died in a bridge collapse that took the lives 78 of the 86 men who were working on it. Her family was involved in commemorating the tragedy a hundred years later.
     Dynamic illustrations by the great E. B. Lewis combine with text to celebrate the bravery of these skilled workers. 

     Do your children enjoy helping out in the kitchen and take pride in seeing other people enjoy their creations? By all means add Jose Feeds The World to their reading 📚 menu. 
     Jose was born in Spain. At a very early age he began to help his parents prepare food for family and friends. Not surprisingly, given his passion, he went to culinary school and became a chef. Moving to America, became a restaurant owner famous for his innovations.
     He was also volunteering at a soup kitchen. When Haiti was devastated by an earthquake in 2010 he went over to help and embarked on a highly innovative second career. 

     Moth is a perfect book for science loving kids. It introduces the complex concepts of evolution, natural selection, and adaptation through the story of the peppered moth which comes in two varieties: light and dark. It shows how events like the industrial revolution affect each variety's ability to camouflage and live long enough to reproduce and pass on genes.
     Daniel Egneus's are vibrant and dynamic. The ones of lots of moths are absolutely breathtaking. 
     This book was suggested to me by a mother who had just enjoyed it with her own kids.

     Kelly Crull's The Black Mambas is most definitely a book for older kids who read 📚 independently. The story of the world's first all-woman anti-poaching units, it's a good fit for budding feminists and kids who care about endangered species. 
     Crull was an advocate for animals since before he started school. With his mother's help he painted a mural of animals in danger of extinction. You can tell how excited he must have been to meet some of these animals in real life (he did the photos as well as the narrative) and interview their protectors. The book radiates enthusiasm, determination, and hope.
     Readers get a real sense of the Black Mambas' day to day patrolling the West Nature Reserve and protecting and sometimes healing its inhabitants. They also learn the history of this unit and the stereotypes the women had to overcome. 
     "Our families weren't as excited as we were. "They wondered if women could do a job that has always been done by men. They wondered what other people would think. They wondered if we would be safe."
     Crull hopes that The Black Mambas will motivate children to commit to the protection of endangered in their own neighborhoods as well as in more exotic locations. He gives some really great advice: 
     "The first and most important step to protect wildlife is to get to know our wild neighbors. Look for them. Learn their names. Find out where they live, what they eat, when their bedtime is, how they have fun, and who their friends and family are. The more you know about your neighbors, the more you will care about them. Ask grown-ups what you can do to help your neighbors grow and stay safe. Keep asking until someone answers your questions."
     And remember towns and cities play host to a rich variety of urban wildlife. 

     How Sweet The Sound is another one for the older kids. And it's one of those books it would be a sin to read only silently in your head. I read it out loud to my wing cat precious Tobago. 
"Listen to the fireside chorus
of the motherland
to the talking drums
dancing beneath the golden sun 
that beat a bold tapestry of yesterday's sorrows 
and tomorrow's dreams."
     The incomparable Kwame Alexander's narrative in verse and the vivid, vibrant illustrations of talented newcomer Charly Palmer combine to tell the rich story of Black music in this country from the days when rich whites were building their wealth on the unpaid labor of kidnapped slaves (while paying lip service to the notion of all men being created equal) to today. 
"Listen to the Quiet Storm
to the fast-paced rhythm of the Street Life
to the corner cries and croons 
of freedom and love 
of Happy Feelin's 
that keep lifting you higher 
because Ain't Nothing Like the Real Thing"
     In the Musical Notes at the back of the book readers get background on each stage in this history. The names of many musicians are included, making it possible to make the eras come more vividly to life by listening to the music. 
     Sounds to me like a good family project. 

     Colleen Paeff's Firefly Song (illustrated beautifully by Ji-Hyuk Kim) is another parent recommended book. It's a beautiful testimony to the idea that experts don't always know all there is to know and that sometimes persistent questions are right. 
     As a child Lynn spent her summers in the Great Smoky Mountains. She spent idyllic days swimming, hunting for treasures, and, after dusk, watching fireflies. After she grew up, married, and had children of her own her family spent summer weeks every year in the family cabin...
     ...where firefly watching continued to be one of the main attractions. Lynn began to notice a different kind of firefly that flashed and went dark in sync. When she tried to find information on them the authorities she relied on--the library, the park rangers, and the University of Tennessee entomologists--were no help...
     ...but Lynn knows what she sees. And she doesn't give up.
     Firefly Song is not just a read and put down book. It gives young firefly fans instructions on how to spot, catch, and release fireflies and how to create a firefly friendly habitat. 

     Picture books often do an excellent job of addressing social justice issues. Lita Judge's Old Blue Is My Home is ideal for teaching young readers and listeners about the housing insecurity that is affecting way too many children and families in the richest nation in the world. 
     The narrator, her sister, her parents, and their cat and dog all live in a blue van. They all sleep in the back which also doubles as a living room in inclement weather. Cooking is done outside. 
     Sometimes, especially when school is in session, she feels that she's "from everywhere and belong nowhere." Someday she hopes that she and her family will have a forever home.
     Judge based the book on her childhood experiences. Her family led a nomadic lifestyle in remote parts of states like Alaska. Although there were temporary houses, the only dependable home she knew was an old blue van. 
     This is an excellent book for a family to read together. An excellent follow-up activity would be to brainstorm which of your daily activities would be difficult or impossible if you had to live in a motor vehicle.

     Where The Deer Slip Through is a perfect bedtime story to help young children make the transition from busy day to restful slumber. Katie Howes has set the stage as a farm set among rolling hills. One by one she introduces nocturnal visitors: the deer who slip through from the woods, the rabbits who squeeze through, the lizards who creep through...I'm really glad bats are included because too many people are needlessly afraid of them.
     Beth Krommes' intricate illillustrations provide the perfect ambiance for the narrative. And especially attentive kids will be able to find creatures not mentioned.
 
    I hope that parents of younger children enjoyed this roundup. I'll do my best to not neglect the picture book set in the future.

On a purrrsonal note, I normally post on odd numbered day. But since I'll be in deep woods at camp tomorrow I'm posting early tonight.
A great big shout out goes out to all the authors and illustrators who are creating gorgeous and memorable picture books for today's children and the loving parents who read to their beloved sons and daughters.
Jules Hathaway 



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Thursday, July 17, 2025

Detained (adult nonfiction)

    I think these days if the Statue of Liberty was capable of doing so she'd step off her pedestal and swim back to France because of how badly America has betrayed her promise. We were hope for people needing to escape war, gangs, cartels, environmental destruction, grinding poverty, and other evils.  Now with the MAGA crowd chanting " build a wall. Build a wall" and ICE minions tearing families apart we're anything but. 
     D. Esperanza's Detained: A Boy's Journal of Survival and Resilience is a diary he kept during the ten months when he struggled to get from his native Honduras to the United States and then languished in a series of detention centers we wouldn't put cats and dogs in. Readers will learn about how his dangerous passage included walking long distances without food,  riding on the roof of trains, and dodging cartels with guns. They'll learn how in this country he was shuttled between prisons, some of which didn't even provide the necessities of life.
     "And I don't even think they're trying to hurt us exactly. They do it because that's just how this system is built. They do it because that's how it's done here. They've created this prison camp where all of us are constantly told: you're a criminal, you're a pain in the ass, you don't matter. They don't say it out loud, but stay locked up long enough, and you get the message loud and clear."
     D. was not a rapist, a drug dealer, a gang member or a criminal as Trump would have us believe. He was a child. He and his younger cousin had lived with their grandmother and uncle. His parents had migrated to the United States because they could not earn enough money to support a family in Honduras. They hadn't taken him with them, considering the journey too hazardous for an infant. 
     The family managed to get by until the uncle dies in an accident. Then the grandmother succombs to cancer. The only way the boys can survive is to join D.'s parents in America. 
     I want you to read this book. I want you to be angry. It's going to take a lot of us to defeat the MAGA crowd and become a nation actually fulfilling the promise of the Statue of Liberty 🗽, becoming a beacon of hope to a hurting world.
On a purrrsonal note, have you ever unexpectedly reconnected with someone who gave you a precious beyond measure gift? That was my experience Tuesday night at the children's garden. Someone called my name. She looked so familiar but my injured brain couldn't place her until she said she was Dr. Tardiff. OMG, LAURA!!! When my beloved Joey cat was 11 he was knocking on heaven's door. Laura did a 4 1/2 miracle surgery and saved his life. Not only did he not die but he bounced back so healthy and happy the practice gave him a jingle mouse they were giving kittens--he had that much energy. Laura gave us FIVE MORE YEARS of love and joy and togetherness. She's looking forward to meeting Tobago.
A great big shout out goes out to Dr. Laura Tardiff, vetinerian and human being extraordinaire.
Jules Hathaway 

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Wednesday, July 16, 2025

I thought that you'd like to see this critter I found standing in front of a bike shop in Orono. Every summer ☀️ a menagerie of colorful creatures arrive and can be found all over downtown Orono. It's one of the really special summer traditions. 



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Tuesday, July 15, 2025

Gem & Dixie

     "An abandoned mother here. A missing uncle there. A disappearing father two generations back. A friendship broken by fear or mistrust or addiction. Genes that make you vulnerable to certain problems. Two children who weren't loved right meeting up when they're not really adults yet and having two more children who aren't loved right. 
     It adds up. It all adds up."
    Gem, narrator of Sara Zarr's Gem & Dixie, has studied her family's history. She and little sister, Dixie, are the "two more children who aren't loved right". Even though her family hasn't been reported to children's protective services her home life is most definitely dysfunctional and dangerous. Both parents are substance abusers. Her father has taken off. Her mother is incapable of taking care of herself, let alone two young daughters. Gem has cared for and protected Dixie.
     Unexpectedly--totally out of the blue--their father decides to re-enter their lives, painting himself as a devoted parent and a responsible adult. Dixie, who has been shielded from the worst of the family dynamics, takes him at his word. When he goes on a $400 grocery shopping spree she believes happy days have arrived. Gem can't buy in.
     "Our dad buying us food shouldn't have been a special treat, it shouldn't have felt like Christmas or a trip to Disneyland; we should have had it all along. There should have been child support, there should have been someone making sure we had what we needed for school. There should have been regular bedtimes and no one working nights, leaving us home all alone."
     When the girls' mother gets home she threatens to call the cops if he doesn't leave right away, preventing him from retrieving the mystery backpack he stashed under Gem's bed...
     ...a backpack that contains about $27,000 (probably gained illicitly), a sum that would allow the sisters to escape their dysfunctional household and start a new life. There's only one problem...
     ...Dixie, believing that their family good times have finally begun, does not want to escape. 
On a purrrsonal note, I had a bit of a scare yesterday. A neighbor told me that the (annual trailer coop) barbecue will be August 9. I thought OMG!!! I have only three weeks to get the backpacks ready. Since 2020 I've been running a backpack 🎒 project that provides backpacks full of school supplies for the kids in my trailer coop. I called Amber and my church for help. Then I looked over my supplies in my shed and the money people have given to buy more. Looks like the sixth year is going to be epic. 
A great big shout out goes out to everyone who is helping me and the fine folx who are coordinating the barbecue. 
Jules Hathaway 



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Sunday, July 13, 2025

Enemies To Friends and beyond (YA romance)

     Fam, if you're in the market for perfect beach or pool side reads I've got a couple of winners. They're in my favorite YA romance genre. Just PLEASE before you settle down and get comfy exercise due diligence with the sunscreen. Future you will be grateful. 
   
   "'And you know how Wharton is. They don't just want some typical straight-A .student. Academics is just one part. They want leaders, not lazy soon-to-be seniors who can't even get a job at the bakery.'"
     Rochelle, protagonist of Zakiya N. Jamal's If We Were A Movie, is obsessed with getting accepted at her mother's alma mater. She's done her academic due diligence, being on track to be valedictorian. But something is missing. She's applying to an ejlite business school and she's, never held a job the summer before her senior year. 
     Fortunately she gets a job at Horizon Cinemas, a beloved Black founded and owned multi plex. There are only two problems. Her immediate boss is Amira, her academic rival and all round nemesis. And someone seems to be trying to sabotage the theater to force it to close.

     "Some people don't think asexual or aromantic people count as queer, or just not queer enough without another letter tacked on, and--well, it's a shitty feeling, being told that you don't belong by people who are supposed to know what it's like to be treated like there's something wrong with you."
     What I love the most about Amanda Dewitt's Wren Martin Ruins It All is that her narrator, Wren, is unapologetically ace. In my experience people who are ace encounter the most entrenched prejudice. IDK. Maybe it's because of the idea that developing sexual attraction is an integral part of growing up. The narrative so often is that they just haven't found the one or are somehow deficient. 
     At the beginning of his senior year in high school Wren has been bumped up to student council president. And does he ever have plans for change. "'I want to abolish the Valentines Day Dance,' I say with all the confidence of someone dropping an atomic bomb. 'And redirect the funding into the school's infrastructure to actually improve this place for everybody who goes here after us.'"
     In Wren's opinion it's just plain wrong to devote such a huge amount of the school's very finite resources to a one night event that won't benefit many of the students when the badly in need of repair facilities endanger them all. The year before a student performing in a play fell through the stage. 
     Wren has a problem even bigger than the love of the student body for the dance. His newly bumped up vice president, Leo, just happens to be his personal nemesis. And Leo believes that they can get the dance sponsored by a social media ap called Buddy.
     Needless to say, Wren is not a happy camper. 
     It doesn't look like Wren and Leo are going to work together well...
     ...unless...

On a purrrsonal note, today I'm enjoying a perfect day 📚  and writing outside near my beautiful flowers. Today when I walked to train for the mountain climb I wore my new used boots. They are very comfortable and seem perfectly suited to the mission. I am SO EXCITED about achieving my goal and raising money for a good cause. Also it is getting less hard to give up the foods I enjoy. It's been weeks since I've had candy, 🍰, ice cream 🍦...you know the yummy sugary stuff. Of course I can't give myself a treat to celebrate because human treats have too much sugar. So I have to enjoy watching Tobago enjoy a treat. She's going to get an unexpected tin of her beloved Fancy Feast.
A great big shout out goes out to my kids and friends for being there for me during this traumatic transition. And a great big shout out and tons of wishes go out to my good friend, Bailey, who is marrying the love ❤️ 😍 💖 ❣️ 💕 💘 of her life today. They are such a cute couple!!!
Jules Hathaway 


     

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Saturday, July 12, 2025

Fam, I found this wonderful painting in an alley between two buildings in Lincoln, Maine. It really resonated with me. Because I usually can see the 🌞 shine I do my best to be it. (Except when it comes to politics in America. I am a realist.)



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Friday, July 11, 2025

If You're Not The One (YA romance)

     The order I review books in is purely random. It's based on the order in which they arrive by ILL 🚚. I haven't requested them by any unifying theme since my third internship when I had to learn all that I could about restorative justice in general and in higher education. I basically send for books that have interesting reviews in journals and newsletters, are recommended by friends, are other volumes by a newly discovered favorite author or look interesting but unaffordable in bookstores. Even then I sometimes find an intriguing unifying element in two consecutive reads. Although Farah Naz Rishi's If You're Not The One and Not So Pure And Simple may seem worlds apart (Islam/fundamentalist Christianity) in both the influence of religious communities on relationships is major. 
     Ani (Anisa) is the perfect desi daughter. She follows all the rules and customs that will protect her family's reputation in the their religious community. She's chosen an acceptable vocation: lawyer. In high school she had virtually no social life, being too busy with AP classes, work, volunteering, and being editor of the school paper and student body VP. Now in her first year of college she's got a similar lifestyle going on to prepare for law school. 
     Although Ani isn't officially engaged, there is an understanding between her family and Isaac's that they will marry. 
     "I should feel lucky she's (future mother-in-law) deemed me good enough for her only son, which means that I've managed to meet her three basic requirements: 1) Good looks (self-explanatory), 2) Good education (solidified by my acceptance to Marion and eventually law school) and 3) Good family (that my family has solid standing, which is just a fancy way of saying no one has dug up any dirt on us)."
     Ani is fine with that. She considers Isaac perfect and gets security from the arrangement. In her mind they are on a guaranteed path to a perfect marriage, home, children...
     ...in other words a perfect life...
     ...She'd been looking forward to college when they'll have more time together away from parental eyes. But it's not working out that way. He rarely has time for her. If they make a date he usually cancels. He gets ugly when she tries to make plans...
     ...he may even be seeing someone else on the side and keeping her in the dark...
     Ani has disliked Marlow on first sight. (He was wearing crocs). She's irate when a professor pairs them up for a project that will count for a big percentage of their grades.
    But when he offers to be her love coach and help fix her relationship with Isaac...
     ...she's too desperate to say no. 
     If you like your romances with some depth and nuance to them If You're Not The One will make a perfect addition to your summer reading list. The ending makes it Hallmark movie worthy. 
On a purrrsonal note, I have a major announcement to make. Early in the summer ☀️ I'd set an intention of climbing a small mountain by the end of summer. I later changed it to autumn because I do better in cooler weather. I just was having trouble working out a way to train. I can't drive to official trails. And I can't yet keep up with my adult friends. But when I got Eugene to buy me my perfect hiking boots my brain kicked into gear to come up with a plan. The first phase involves swapping out hiking for stationary biking twice a week. I know the layout of Veazie from my years of door to door campaigning for myself in school committee elections. I planned out a morning route and evening route. In phase two I'll do some hiking/climbing with families with kids. Phase three will be the real thing. Today after breakfast I slipped on my sneakers 👟 and grabbed my keys 🔑 and took off. It was almost an hour going steady and I did much better than I'd expected. About halfway I had an inspiration. Instead of doing a small mountain climb with a few friends I can turn it into an EVENT to raise money for Black Bear Mutual Aid Fund which helps UMaine students with stuff like textbooks and unexpected medical expenses. Wouldn't this be AWESOME?
A great big shout out goes out to me for coming up with this creative idea and totally committing to it. 
Jules Hathaway 



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Thursday, July 10, 2025

Fam, just had to share this picture with you. It's me with my special pin. I'm quite proud of being the official library photographer. BTW don't you just love my hair? I adore my wild curls. I think they're one of my best features. And I love the way my crowning glory feels so soft and bouncy when I run my fingers through it. I am so glad I do not dye it!



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Wednesday, July 9, 2025

Not So Pure And Simple

     I've got a real winner for the old summer reading list.  Lamar Giles' Not So Pure And Simple seamlessly combines a truly engaging,  relatable narrative with perceptive insight into sexism and misogyny.   
     Del has been crushing on Kiera since kindergarten when they were leads in their class play. Only he's never been able to act on it because of her suitors. Every time she breaks up with one she takes up with another before he can make a move. 
     When Kiera breaks up because of Colossus cheating with "some heifer named Angie " Del thinks that his chance has finally come. And he's looking for opportunity to knock. They go to the same fundamentalist church. One Sunday, waking up from daydreaming through the pastor's sermon, he sees other teens including Kiera approaching the alter and joins them.
     "In the early moments of service, before I zoned out, they'd talk about volunteering. Go read to old folks at the nursing home. Help scrub graffiti off the community center. Whatever it was, Kiera would be there."
     It's not until he's fully committed that he learns they're signed on for an eight week purity pledge class to become "ambassadors of God serving as positive influences for their peers and the community at large."
     Not exactly on brand for our boy, Del. But he's willing to do whatever it takes to win the beautiful Kiera over. Only it doesn't seem to be working. 
     A fellow classmate who is Kiera's next door neighbor offers to help him in his quest in exchange for getting answers to his and his friends' sex questions. You see the high school has a sex ed class called healthy living elective which includes "a thorough review of STD prevention and contraception" as opposed to Purity Pledge which offers "A thorough review of why Jesus wants me to abstain." You can guess which one most of the church kids aren't allowed to attend...
     ...Which does not seem to be all that effective since a lot of Del's classmates are having babies out of wedlock.
     Del considers himself one of the good guys as opposed to his church and society as a whole. But could instead be part of the problem?
On a purrrsonal note, yesterday three wonderful things happened. ✨️ First I was browsing the Orono Public Library sales shelves and found a book by one of my Katie's favorite authors. Now I have part of her Christmas 🎄 present. I shop basically year round to try to on a shoestring budget find my kids gifts 🎁 they'll love.
Second the librarians gave me a special volunteer pin. I am officially the volunteer who takes pictures for their social media. This is a first and mutually beneficial. They love the pictures and I love taking them.
Third I finally figured out how I can get in practice for my mountain climb. I know I'd slow my friends down. But I bet I can keep up with a family with little kids. I've already found one. I am so looking forward to that.
A great big shout out goes out to my Orono Public Library family and the children and parents participating in the children's garden. 
Jules Hathaway 



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Tuesday, July 8, 2025

My new gently used hiking boots

My best yard sale find of the weekend. They are a perfect fit and just right for my first post stroke mountain climb which I plan for this fall. Getting ready will be its own challenge. Since I don't drive I don't have access to places I can practice. Gotta be creative here. When I picked out the boots Eugene had this what do you need those for look on his face. In his mind since I can walk that should be enough. I had to work really hard to be able to run. I just regained the ability to jump rope. It's hard to explain but I don't want residual brain damage to define me. I'm still an adventurous person who thrives on challenges. Am I making sense?



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My new gently used hiking boots

My best yard sale find of the weekend. They are a perfect fit and just right for my first post stroke mountain climb which I plan for this fall. Getting ready will be its own challenge. Since I don't drive I don't have access to places I can practice. Gotta be creative here. When I picked out the boots Eugene had this what do you need those for look on his face. In his mind since I can walk that should be enough. I had to work really hard to be able to run. I just regained the ability to jump rope. It's hard to explain but I don't want residual brain damage to define me. I'm still an adventurous person who thrives on challenges. Am I making sense?



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Monday, July 7, 2025

Even In Paradise (YA fiction)

     Some families are perceived by the world as being larger than life. When I was growing up one of the storied clans was the Kennedys. These days you have the Kardashians. Legions of people have insatiable curiosity about every facet of their lives and dream of becoming even a peripheral part of their world. But these families' stories can contain heart breaking tragedy as well as triumph. Chelsey Philpot's Even In Paradise shows becoming engaged with them can leave scars.
     "The Buchanans' pull was as natural and strong as the moon on the tides, and when I was with them I was happy in the warmth of their reflected light. 
     If they had any sense of their collective charm, they never showed it...They were all royalty. They were all gods. They were all broken."
     One fall night after lights out Charlie (Charlotte), a Saint Anne's junior, hears noises outside her dorm and saves a very drunk (and abandoned by her partying chums) Julia Buchanan from getting caught by the night patrol. The next morning she receives gifts and an invitation to Julia's dorm room.
     When Julia decides that she and Charlie are meant to be friends Charlie's friends try unsuccessfully to warn her that this might not be such a good idea. To no avail.  Soon she and Julia are spending all their free time together. It isn't always easy. Julia has a very mercurial temperament. 
     That summer Charlie spends a lot of time in Julia's mansion with her larger than life family including her crush worthy brother, Sebastian. She learns that to them she's more than just a guest. She's a good influence, protecting Julia from something never explicitly mentioned...
     ...perhaps well kept secrets about the tragic death of Julia's beloved older sister?
On a purrrsonal note, I had a really spooky experience last night. I was shade chasing and reading. At that moment I was in front of Eugene's new used truck. I heard a faint tick sound. As I looked at that truck all its lights came on with Eugene on the sofa inside watching the hunt for Bigfoot and the key fob on the kitchen counter. Thankfully the truck did not set off on a murderous rampage like Stephen King's Christine. 
A great big shout out to Eugene for buying a non possessed (hopefully) truck. 
Jules Hathaway 



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Sunday, July 6, 2025

Well, fam, just got back from camp and did my tick protection routine. Just wanted to share one more picture from Amber's Thursday event. You can find more about the event and so much more on amberhathaway.com.



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Friday, July 4, 2025

Epic Fail (YA fiction)

     Although I love a good chiller as much as anyone else, sometimes after a particularly intense one I find myself craving something more upbeat where the characters aren't going to be killed in gruesome ways. Claire LaZebnik's fit the bill just perfectly. 
     Elise and her family have just moved from the East Coast to sunny 🌞 California. The older girls are enrolled in Coral Tree Prep which is described as "basically a country club masquerading as a school". Elise is a junior. Juliana, with whom she's very close, is a senior. Chelsea, whom both consider aggravating, is a freshman. Actually with their mother being principal of the school and their father teaching there (which does not endear the girls to their new peers) the littlest sister, Kaitlyn, is the only one in the family whose life doesn't revolve around Coral Tree Prep.
     Just about everyone who attends the school is wealthy. The student parking lot is full of luxury vehicles.  The true elites are the offspring of show biz celebrities. At the top of the pyramid is Derek, the son of a Hollywood  royal family. 
     Elise prides herself on not sharing the superficial values of her peers. She sees Derek as an entitled snob and can't imagine having anything to do with him other than passing him in the halls...
     ...certainly not falling into his orbit when his best friend starts dating Juliana...
     ...This cute romance would make a great beach read. 
On a purrrsonal note, I'm posting this review a day early because tomorrow and tomorrow night I'll be on a romantic getaway in the Maine woods. 
Today my one and only, Eugene, and I went to the in-laws for his family's cookout. The food was awesome: steak, chicken, burgers and dogs, chicken salad, deviled eggs, cheese and crackers, cherries, strawberries and cream, chips and dip...something for everyone. Cheryl (Eugene's sister) presided over the event and made sure nobody went home hungry. She cooks steak better than anyone else, 😋, even restaurants that specialize in steak.
A great big shout out goes out to Cheryl for being once again the hostess with the mostest.
Jules Hathaway 




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Here is a picture from last night. Don't you just love Amber's outfit? Check out amberhathaway.com to learn more about her and Little White Flowers. If you enjoy well written, suspenseful chillers it's a great addition to your summer reading list. 



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Thursday, July 3, 2025

That's Not My Name (YA chiller)

     If you're in the market for a hard core chiller, something you wouldn't want to tackle in the middle of a blizzard with the power out, especially if you are a fan of crime podcasts, Megan Lally's That's Not My Name should be on your summer reading list. 
"I think I might be dead.
     I try to gather my bearings, but I can't see. I feel nothing. Not even my own body. The lack of sensation, the way the silence wraps me in a hug and squeezes--it's unnerving. I want it to stop--
     Until the pain comes."
     An injured teenage girl finds herself in a ditch at night, not knowing where she is or how she got there...
     ...or even her own name...
     A police officer finds her and brings her to the station. As he's checking missing person reports a man arrives who claims she's his daughter, Mary. He has enough documents to satisfy the officer who lets him take her to an isolated cabin on a mountain. He plays the role of loving father. But she quickly starts seeing red flags. 
     "I'll never give up on Lola, but how am I supposed to fight for her and myself at the same time? Roane said I was their last suspect. And knowing him, he won't stop until he's pieced together enough evidence to fit his version of events. Then I'll get arrested, and Lola will still be gone. How do I help her from behind bars?"
     Drew had a late night argument with his girlfriend. She went running off into the night...
     ...and never made it home...
     ...now weeks later he feels like the police aren't doing enough to find her, like they've latched onto the boyfriend as killer theme and are trying to prove it instead of exercising due diligence in searching for her.
     As the narratives alternate the suspense builds. There's no way they'll not intersect in a really grim grand finale. The question: just how grim and who will be left alive. 
On a purrrsonal note, today was the first event for Amber's book, Little White Flowers. The Orono Public Library was the gracious host. Amber enjoyed their creative youth program during many of her growing up years. The event went really well. Amber read from her book and answered many questions from a very engaged audience--very well in my opinion. She had a prize drawing and autographed the books people purchases. Pictures were taken. It was quite a success. Now I have to set up more events. 
A great big shout out goes out to Amber, the star 🌟 of the event and her very supportive husband, Brian. 
Jules Hathaway 
 

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Tuesday, July 1, 2025

The Vanishing Season

     The best word to describe Jodi Lynn Anderson's The Vanishing Season is haunting. It's set in the outskirts of a small town without even reliable cell phone reception. And the living seem not to be the only inhabitants. 
     The town is being rocked by a rude awakening, a loss of innocence. Something that could not possibly happen here is most definitely happening. Teenage girls are going missing and turning up dead. Panic is setting in along with the bitter cold winter. People are isolating themselves behind locked doors. Businesses are shutting down. 
       The outskirts consists of three houses, each containing a teenager. There's Maggie who has just moved from Chicago with her parents when her mother lost her job. There's the impetuous and seemingly irresistible Pauline. And there's Liam, son of the town pariah. His dad manages to piss off the whole town with his in your face promotion of atheism.
       Pauline and Liam have been a couple seemingly forever. Maggie initially is friends with both. But when things change there is a sense of loss and betrayal. 
     With dread in the town and drama in the outskirts all are locked in the brutal grip of winter. Who will not make it through to spring?
On a purrrsonal note, I'm a grandmother. No, my kids haven't gone and procreated. It's the official launch day for Amber's first solo book (she's had stories in a number of fine anthologies), Little White Flowers. It's the first volume in a trilogy. I've seen that creation evolve from first draft (which can be considered a literary sonogram) through every stage of its evolution. So, yes, I'm a Grammy. Instead of knitting booties and offering to babysit I get to spread the word.
A great big shout out goes out to my gifted, talented first born. Check out amberhathaway.com. And if finely crafted horror stories are your fiction go tos, Little White Flowers most definitely belongs on your summer reading list.
Jules Hathaway 


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Monday, June 30, 2025

Well, fam, this is my big crafts project of which I am  very proud. The jeans jacket (which I scored for free at Black Bear Exchange) was just lying around. Then at Goodwill I bought a package of wooden critters for only $2. There were 42 in all. I sewed them all on. It was quite an accomplishment what with my residual brain damage from the stroke. But I'm sure you'll agree it's a thing of beauty and truly unique. 


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